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To the poster re:sexting
I tried to reply to this post, but couldn't get it to work...
Just wanted to say to OP that you really should ask yourself... what is missing in your relationship and what can YOU do to change yourself to help your husband be faithful. It takes TWO to make a relationship work!!! Try reading the five languages of love. Good luck, you made VOWS through better or worse! Good luck girl!!
Original post: My husband and I were married Sept 09, and in March this year, I found out he was sexting with a girl he works with, and sneaking around to hang out with her alone while I was at work. (He and I work opposite schedules). After I found out about it and confronted him, he made it seem like it was MY fault he was saying these explicit things to her (things he had never even come close to saying to me), and within a week he was doing it again. I kicked him out after the 2nd time, and after he was gone for weeks, he begged me to come home, promising not to do it anymore. Now, I know the sexting has stopped, but he still works with this girl... as far as I know it never went beyong the words, but that is as far as I know. How do you not only forgive, but move on and start to trust again? I've tried to get him to go to counseling and he just wont. Do I just throw in the towel and say enough is enough?
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Re: To the poster re:sexting
Its not her job to keep her husband faithful. He needs to be faithful or end the marriage. Cheating is the same as being a coward. Worse even.
Again, and again, and again...
OMFG. You have got to be kidding me.
Genius... that thread is locked because it is nearly 2 years old. The OP is never coming back. For all we know, she threw her husband down the stairs and keeps his balls in a jar of formaldehyde displayed on the mantle for all to see.
http://pandce.proboards.com/index.cgi#general
Desk is not working. Time to try a brick wall.
Ohhh it's finally locked?
Yep. ESD used her mod powers and locked it down for us. That's why the OP of this thread couldn't reply to that which shall never die.
http://pandce.proboards.com/index.cgi#general
He needs to go.
I wonder what kind of legs this marriage had at all. I am willing to bet that this little "friendship" of his with her has been going on before you got married.
There is nothing here for you. An affair is an affair -- and no decent happily married man has a "friend" that he sexts. Period.
Haha.
Feliz navidad.hehehe
Here's hoping.
posters are replying to it because they are seeing it in the graphic at the bottom of the page "what nesties are talking about..."
OP: Since you are posting this on the Bump, I'll assume you are pregnant. What you have to understand is that 68% of people cheat at some point in their relationship. Whether it is physical or not! Try reading the bible together and bringing God back into your relationship. He won't cheat on you if he knows God is watching.
The. Dummest. Shiit. Ever. To. Be. Written. On. The. Internet.
/dead
Holy fvvcking fvcks. I should put needles in my keyboard. Then I could at least give my forehead acupuncture while I read TIP,
I'm dying, I swear.
http://pandce.proboards.com/index.cgi#general
OMFGGGGGGGGGGGG KILL MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
YOU PEOPLE HAVE ZERO READING SKILLS OR COMPREHENSION WHATSOEVER!
YOU ALL FAIL THE INTERNET!!!
THAT DAMN THREAD IS TWO FUUCKING YEARS OLD!!!!!!
What you just heard there was the sound of Cupcake's head actually exploding.
Word.
http://pandce.proboards.com/index.cgi#general
OMG you have no idea. Today has made me want to eat a gun and this Lazarus reincarnation of THAT thread is just the icing on the shitcake.
So not only are these people too dumb to realize 1) how old this post is and 2) that it's locked...
The advice given is so ludicrous that I'm actually stupider for having read it.
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