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14 weeks pg and no HB :(

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Re: 14 weeks pg and no HB :(

  • Thank you everyone for the thoughtful words.  They mean a lot especially since I have been on an emotional roller coaster over the last 24 hours.  

    I FINALLY found a doctor in Orlando who would take me since I am a new patient 1/3 of the way through my pregnancy.  This doctor is wonderful, she saw me immediately and spent a lot of time with me and my H going over our options.  I had another US this morning and it was indeed confirmed that the baby stopped growing yesterday.  There was no heartbeat :(  I have decided to have a D&C even though it will be tough on my body being almost 14 weeks along.  Unfortunately the OR can't schedule my surgery until next Tuesday so I have a week in limbo.  I am hoping my body doesn't naturally miscarry before then since I think it will be rather traumatic.  I am far enough along that the fetus will look like a baby rather than tissue and I just don't think I am prepared to deal with that.  I would much rather be put to sleep and wake up with everything taken care of.  

    I am doing ok emotionally except for a few moments of weepiness.  Physically I am a little crampy but nothing unmanageable and I have yet to start bleeding.  Fingers crossed that my body will hold out until next Tuesday.  

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  • Im so sorry to be so late on this, my heart is breaking Sad . My thoughts and prayers to you and your family. Stay strong.
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  • I am so so sorry to hear this.  My T&Ps are with you.  While you are quite strong it is OK to cry too. 
  • imagediamondgrrl5:
    I am so so sorry to hear this.  My T&Ps are with you.  While you are quite strong it is OK to cry too

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  • I am so sorry, Kathy. I don't know what else to say besides that. So sorry..
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  • I don't know what to say Kathy, but you are in my prayers.  I am so heartbroken for you.

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  • Kathy, I am so sorry for you. Your post brings me to tears and I could never ever fathom what you are going through. I am thinking of your family and hoping that your body can wait through this week. 
  • My heart goes out to you Kathy..I can't imagine what you are going through. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. 
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