Starting Over
Dear Community,

Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.

If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.

Thank you.

Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.

Newbie here *waves*

Long-time lurker, first time poster on this board. My divorce was finalized at the end of May. I don't know how to take off my wedding date from my profile, but I am definitely not married anymore. I'm in a long-term relationship with a great guy but sometimes I feel pangs of guilt and anger. (I initiated the divorce). I forgot to remove my ex as an authorized user on my credit card and he emailed me last week saying that he just ran his credit report and it showed my credit card having a "ridiculous amount of debt" (which honestly is only about a couple thousand dollars). He is trying to get approved for financing for plastic surgery. But it just brought back a ton of negative feelings I had about him and our marriage in general. I feel that I somehow have to prove myself to him even though I don't need to do that anymore. Contact between us is very limited and I hope to just cease talking to him altogether. We were together for over 6 years and sometimes it's just hard to stop feeling certain emotions. I hope to post a lot more, as this is very therapeutic for me.

Re: Newbie here *waves*

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