Trouble in Paradise
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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
**BowiesInSpace**
You mentioned below that your first marriage didn't work out because it boiled down to your husband not loving you. How did this manifest itself? What did it look like in your marriage? If you don't mind me asking.
Re: **BowiesInSpace**
Selfishness. Contempt. Objectifying me. Infidelity. Emotional distance. Lack of physical intimacy. There was a lot of other background noise near the end - reverting to a college-like mentality, narcissism, an unhealthy relationship with alcohol - but those were just his coping mechanisms. Well, the partying was, but I think the narcissism was always there. It's my fault for ignoring it.
Honestly, I don't think he's capable of loving other people. They're merely accessories in his fabulous life. That extends to his family too, or at least most of them. He was all take and no give. Again, another red flag I missed.