Trouble in Paradise
julieandjojo
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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
ughh got too comfortable
I never really put any stock in it when people say they "got too comfortable" in a marriage or relationship...I have been married for a year and have known my hubby for 10 years so I figured that it would be impossible to get too comfortable. LOL well I was wrong. I haven't worked out in months, or really watched what I've eaten, and I am starting to feel the effects of it. I don't like how I look with this weight I've put on, nor do I like how I feel about myself. I feel like it's impacting our sex life too because I'm not happy with my body right now. I've been going out with girl friends more often, and "dressing up," I guess hubby was bothered by it but didn't say anything about it until it boiled over. He and I go on dates but I usually don't try to look any fancier or better than my normal self. Anyway, those things being said, I am now joining the ranks of those who believe in the dangers of getting "too comfortable" and not that it can ruin a marriage but, I guess now I agree that you have to make sure you're taking care of yourself and also dressing up or doing something a little different for hubby once in awhile. Just my thoughts. Now that it came to a point where I had an emotional meltdown about how I feel about my body and how it's affecting other parts of my life...I can finally do something about it lol.
Daisy & Picabo 
Proud Newbie Gardener
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Re: ughh got too comfortable
lol well duh. If you dont care about how you look do you think your husband is ever gonna stop to look twice?