Putting my dog down

fit654

Hi, I don't normally post here but I need some advice. My dog hind legs are paralyzed and have been since August. We've taken her to the vet they didn't dx her really, but it is likely nerve damage. She can pull herself around a bit and sit up but she can't really move anymore. She doesn't seem to be in pain, but has got a few pressure ulcers. DH and I have to carry her in and outside, and I know her quality of life isn't good. I adopted her, so I am unsure of her age, but she is likely about 10-11. She has been such a good dog, and I am really struggling with the idea of putting her down. I would continue to carry her in and out etc. but I just don't think its fair to her. Any advice would be appreciated.

MrsJRD23

I'm sorry have you looked into the possibility of a cart for your dog?

here's one website that has some info but there are lots of options: 

http://eddieswheels.com/

 I can't tell you when is the right time to put your dog down, only you and your DH will know that.  If you do decide to, know that what you do you do out of love for your dog.  Your dog has known love with you.  I'm so sorry.

KnockKnock

I'm so sorry. I would definitely be taking into account her quality of life like you mentioned. Is it going to get better or worse? 

mainerocks

I'm so sorry you are going through this and I commend you for all you have done to help your pup through this difficulty!  Only you know your pet best and know if she's enjoying life still. Do you have a good vet, who also knows the pup and can help you through this decision?  I had to put my cat down in November and it was one of the hardest things I have ever done so I sympathize with you so much. Wishing you the best during this difficult time...

fit654

I'm sorry have you looked into the possibility of a cart for your dog?

here's one website that has some info but there are lots of options: 

http://eddieswheels.com/

Yeah, I got her a cart and we attempted to use it but basically she seemed to completely hate it, was too weak to really use it, and peed all over the floor. I felt like I was torturing her with it.

 

kellbell1919

I think it is a very personal decision.  We chose to put our cat down when her quality of life declined to the point where I felt she was more uncomfortable than comfortable.  She was having issues walking, didn't want to be touched and was refusing to eat.  At the time, it was a hard decision to make, but I had a moment of clarity where I realized SHE was miserable and keeping her around would be purely selfish on my part.  If she's wagging, cuddling, eating, and doing most of the things she used to love I'd look into something like a cart to improve her mobility.  If she really is lethargic and seems miserable, isn't doing most of her normal things, then it might be time to let go.

salimoo

I'm so sorry.

Glad to see the plug for Eddie's Wheels in here, though. The owner of our pet shop/dog walker company does a lot of work with them. They're a great company. I'm sorry your pup didn't take to her wheels.

red1115

I'm so sorry you're facing such a painful decision with your pup.  I've had to make the decision with 3 of my furbabies in 2yrs. (Most recently over Christmas)  Ultimately the decision lays with you & DH - you know your dog better than anyone & can tell whether or not she's truely happy with the quality of her life.  The basis for my decision in putting any of my animals down is whether I'm keeping them alive for my own comfort or for theirs. This has always refocused me to my purpose as an animal guardian/parent - "They're not here for me, I'm here for them."  Your willingnes to continue carrying your dog shows your dedication & love for your companion.

I would advise that you take time and consideration with your decision, especially if she's not in pain or discomfort. If you can convince her to adapt to a carriage - GREAT!  Hopefully you'll both have many more years of happiness together! (fingers crossed!) 

If you decide on euth. you may have the option of having the vet come to your house vs. you taking her to vet's office.  Look into pet crematoriums in your area - I've had each of my beloved furbabies returned to me & had the oppotunity to bury their ashes under their favorite oak tree.  The peace brought by that closure is inmeasurable, as it is now the favorite resting spot of our newest pups. I would recommend to throughly research & find one that is a member of  IAOPCC. (Intl Assoc of Pet Cemetaries & Crematoriums)

I hope you find the best answer for your family and find peace.

 

fit654

ank you fora all the advice. My dh and I made the painful decision today that it is time to saw goodbye to our girl.I feel like it is time, she was my firsr dog and has cememred my love of dogs and my belive in adoption She was already four when I got her but it was love at first site.