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Stupid things that make me sad
My cousin/BFF had a HUGE falling out this past August around the time my Grandfather past away. I think some of you may remember some posts I had in regards to it.
Thankfully I've had such a huge amount of support from my immediate family, some extending family, and of course, you guys that I've made my peace with it and cut her out of my life.
I haven't talked to her in awhile beside a nasty message back and forth via FB. (it's all very dramatic)
So I get this message from her today that says:
"I'm still mad at you, but you're the only one who would appreciate this"
I'm angry that she would even try to break the ice with this, but in all reality I want nothing to do with her. She was such a huge negativity in my life that I never realize was so out of control until the big incident.
This post really has no point to it, I'm just sad at what used to be and angry with how it is now.
Re: Stupid things that make me sad
It really does suck when good relationships dissolve and become so rocky and grudge-filled. I hope she leaves you alone in the meantime if you choose not to respond to her message.
Thanks Erin. Yeah, I didn't respond. Sometimes I wish she didn't say the things she did so I could forgive her and she could forgive me and it would all be water under the bridge.
At this point, not only would I be disappointed in myself for letting her back in, I know a few others who would be to.
I think that, and me venting on this board is good enough to release all the bad feelings I have about it and move on. I still get sad from time to time, but I'm assuming that's normal.
I'm sorry
I "broke up" with my former BFF on my 21st birthday. She's the most selfish person I know and I don't regret ending things. I see her posts on mutual friends FB walls and see that she hasn't changed in the least.
I hate relationships that have to end on a bad note. But I'm glad you didn't respond. Some friendships just aren't meant to be.
I agree with HD and I am glad you didn't respond. Remembering that you're better off without the negativity is difficult to handle, but it sounds like it is for the best for you. I hope she doesn't try to contact you anymore.