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Second thought update
Thanks for the advice. It was very helpful and thoughtful, I appreciate it.
So I talked to FL and told him everything I was feeling and that I thought we both deserved to be happy and that the things in our way, were big issues and they were not going to get better with marriage, only worse. He agreed. And so we broke up. I thought I would feel relief or hope for my future. Something other than how I feel now. which is terrible.. I'm still on the fence.
But I took time to write down the issues and my positions, and think it out as best i could with my foggy thoughts. I want to listen to my gut but it keeps changing its mind. So I called and made an appointment with a therapist. If I can't trust my Gut, maybe a professional is better!
Anyway. I just wanted to update and put it out there, I'll let you know. Thanks again
Re: Second thought update