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Nest edited my crappy language.

My DH just got laid off. Last day is Thursday, gets paid through the end of the month.

We are fuuuuucked. I am not on leave, I quit my job to focus on my own business but was counting on his income to actually make it this year. We don't have enough in savings to live for more than three months without any other income coming in. 

It really hurts, he worked in the same office I did with the same boss and apparently the boss has known this was coming since before the holidays and baby but didn't want to say anything. I don't know what we're going to do. Crying

 

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  • I'm so sorry.....lots of thoughts and prayers!
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  • What field is your dh in? Nesties got your back- we are very good at circling the wagons to help our own. Hugs Hon.
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  • Oh honey, I'm so sorry.  I was laid off 10 days after DD was born and was the primary breadwinner in our house too.  Get on that unemployment application as soon as possible and start cutting corners now (coupon, meal plan, and cancel the cable if you haven't already).  You can get through this.  I'm sending lots of TPJ and am happy to be an empathetic ear if you need it!  
  • Fuuuuck. How can we help? What kind of job is he looking for? I'm sending you a PM in about 30 seconds. . . 
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  • First, ((Hugs)).

    Second, I'm so sorry!  What can we do to help?

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  • I am SO sorry.  What kind of work does P do?  Perhaps we can help him find something new?  Have you thought about contacting your county dept. of human services and looking into WIC and/or foodstamps?  Any little bit will help!!  PM me if you need anything specific for F.  I'm more than happy to help!  BIG HUGS and I am so sorry that this happened, FWIW I think your old boss is a big a$$ for doing that to you & P!!!
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  • I'm so sorry. That is awful. Sad

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  • Holy Moly!! I'm so sorry to hear this.  Seriously, what can we do to help?

    I second the contacting unemployment and WIC offices, every little bit helps. 

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  • huge hugs! That is pretty messed up that the boss knew and didn't want to say anything.
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  • I'm so sorry! I can't imagine going through this right after having a baby. Would your husband be up to doing retail sales?
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  • Oh no!  I'm so sorry! 
  • I am so so sorry.  
  • I am so so sorry.
  • holy sh!t, your boss is a giant diick for doing that to you guys.

    I am so, so sorry to hear this and like everyone else said, what do you need? If your husband would be interested in working in a restaurant let me know and I'll hit up my H.   

  • I'm so sorry
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  • I'm so sorry:-(
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  • I am SO sorry =(  I can't imagine going through this after just having a baby and making the decision to quit so you could pursue other things.

    Hang in there and know that there is hope on the other side of this mess.  I was laid off in a really nasty way so the company I worked for could promote a male who had loyalties to a different group of mgrs and it was the same place DH worked.  It was such a huge mess and I cried for weeks feeling so awful and helpless, but it the long run I am so happy it happened to us.  It was a really good change in the end and some great things came of it, but at the time I thought our world was ending.  Not too comforting when you have a new baby and are dealing with so many difficult things, I know, but we are all here for you.  Let us know if there is anything we can do.

    What industry will he / you be looking for?

  • I'm so sorry to hear this.  You will be in my thoughts and prayers.  Please, please let us Nesties know if we can help you at all. 
  • Oh man, that bites. I'm so sorry. I hope he finds something soon! Please try to just enjoy that new baby as much as possible....so hard, I can't imagine.
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  • I am so so sorry. What do you need?
  • Hugs!  That is just plain nasty business.  Let us know his experience and hopefully something can be put together.
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  • I am so sorry, this happened to us last year at this time. No warnings nothing. Hi, don't come back tomorrow, here's two weeks pay. I was sick at the time and the hit on our health insurance was the worst. 

    Anyway, we ended up moving to California and are doing much better but sending hugs and good juju to find a new job. It really pisses me off when these companies know they are going to do something but instead of telling you so you can look for other job opportunities, they just wait and drop the hammer. It's brutal. I am really angry for you. 

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  • Wow.  I can't believe your old boss did that - especially knowing full well what your plans were.  That sucks.

    I'm happy to pass along any leads I hear of - what type of position is DH looking for?

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  • Holy sh!t!  What a jerk.  I'm so sorry.  I wish I could hire all the Nesties/DH who need a job while they job hunt. 
  • I am so so so sorry.  What kind of position is he looking for??
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  • wow.  I cannot believe bossman would do that when he knew your DH would be the only one with a steady paycheck!  grrrrrr
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  • So sorry to hear about this!  I hope one of you find something soon!
  • I'm so sorry, I hope he's able to find something even better soon. That's really crappy that your boss knew and didn't say anything.
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  • I am SO sorry. That beyond sucks. Sending TPJ :-(
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