Starting Over
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Just wanted to see how you are doing, if you are still coming around here. I have been thinking about you!
"No longer lend your strength to that which you wish to be free from." -Jewel
Re: ::joelen&louis::
Thanks for the post
I'm doing really well, thanks to awesome friends/family/support system... although I do have my moments when I wonder why I stuck it out for so long or what happened to the guy I was smitten over in the beginning or if there was something I could have done differently to change the course of our relationship for the better. But regardless, what's done is done. I can't dwell on the past - just focus on the future and what lies ahead.

My work schedule and juggling single parenthood makes it challenging to find time with a counselor to talk through my thoughts/feelings but I'm still looking for a good fit and one that has the availability I can work with.
Stbxh is being extremely amicable, cooperative and just as it was outlined in another post, 'perfect.' But I see right through that because I know exactly who he really is. I know he's still in denial about the whole situation but it's been a long time coming.
Thank goodness for kitchen therapy. I've been spending what extra time I do have playing in the kitchen and that always makes me feel better... well, that's second to cuddle time with my lil guy.