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Parents of school age kids ????

Ok, I am not normally like this, but if you are sending your kid (mostly boys) to school in shorts in the winter I am severely questioning your parentling skills.  It is 19 freaking degrees out!!! and why don't schools have dress codes to control this?? don't they go out for recess anymore? these kids (I saw 2 boys on the way to work waiting for the bus in shorts...probably 7-ish years old) would be freezing outside for recess for 30-45 minutes, running around or not!! I don't know why, but this totally bothers me today.
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Re: Parents of school age kids ????

  • I am with you but there is a part of me that says MAYBE they had gym first period and will change after the class. Or maybe they were being PITA to the mom so she let me go out like that to teach a lesson. There could be so many reasons but yeah, my first thought would be "How does a parent allow that?"
  • My school growing up didn't allow shorts except during June, but in HS a lot of guys wore shorts year round. That said, is it really worse than the girls wearing short skirts and nylons? I worked in a professional position last winter and wore dresses/skirts with stockings pretty much daily, regardless of the weather. I don't think stockings made me warmer than not wearing them. How is wearing shorts different?
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  • Eh - there are bigger battles to fight.  If wearing shorts to him was that important I'd be like go ahead and freeze.  And look stupid with your winter coat, aviator hat and gloves.

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  • imageladyredlight:

    Eh - there are bigger battles to fight.  If wearing shorts to him was that important I'd be like go ahead and freeze.  And look stupid with your winter coat, aviator hat and gloves.

     i agree

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  • When I see that i just laugh and think that those kids are total douches.  Shorts at 60 degrees I get but 20 degrees?
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  • When I was a freshman in HS there was still the rule, no shorts before June 1. Then my sophomore year they lifted that rule for some reason, so there were two girls who challenged each other to see who would wear shorts longer into the winter. They both wore shorts every. single. day. for the entire year. It was really funny seeing them in their boots, jackets, hats, etc. and shorts.

    I don't know, yeah there are bigger battles to fight, but when my kid comes downstairs wearing shorts this time of year, I am very quick to tell him he's going to freeze and to get upstairs and change. I'm still the parent. Get your ass up there and put on some pants, boy.
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  • I knew a guy in HS who made some sort of bet that he could wear shorts and nothing more then a hoodie on top throughout marching band season (ends first week of Dec for the Holiday Parade) Anyway he did it and it was one of those really cold falls too. I remember those long practices 2 nights a week until 9pm wearing leggings w/ fleece pants over them plus a tank top, long sleeve, hoodie, and coat. Crazy....
  • I am not home when Liam goes to school and as such I have little or no say over what he wears HOWEVER I have made it clear to him when he has to wear shorts as opposed to long pants. My sitter, God bless her, speaks little or no English and is suffering from Cancer so if he doen't follow her directions (and he mostly does) he hears about it from me when I pick him up and he is punished.

    As a middle school teacher I am daily  HORRIFIED at the hooker ensembles that pass as clothing on young girls. The day I would emblazon the word JUICY on my young daughers chest or a$$ would be the day I die. It is not jsut Juicy either - it is the jeans that are so low slung that I swear I see pubes, the belly shirts and the gstrings (yes I do see them - and on 6th graders). When you allow your daugher to dress that way you are selling something. Do not be surprised when someone wants to buy it.

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    I am not home when Liam goes to school and as such I have little or no say over what he wears HOWEVER I have made it clear to him when he has to wear shorts as opposed to long pants. My sitter, God bless her, speaks little or no English and is suffering from Cancer so if he doen't follow her directions (and he mostly does) he hears about it from me when I pick him up and he is punished.

    As a middle school teacher I am daily  HORRIFIED at the hooker ensembles that pass as clothing on young girls. The day I would emblazon the word JUICY on my young daughers chest or a$$ would be the day I die. It is not jsut Juicy either - it is the jeans that are so low slung that I swear I see pubes, the belly shirts and the gstrings (yes I do see them - and on 6th graders). When you allow your daugher to dress that way you are selling something. Do not be surprised when someone wants to buy it.

     

    Amen!!! And this is why I am Sooo happy my town has a uniform for the public schools! 

  • well no I wouldnt allow it and yes I would question the parenting there, especially for an under 12 child. I mean if I let my kids out of the house in what they wanted it would be shorts and flip flop all year round. I am the parent who makes sure they are weather appropriate at least. I am not going to throw a fit about pink sparkly pants versus blue pants but weather appropriate yes.

    What I find is I have to be firm and hold my guns on important things or you start to lose ground and credibility as a parent. I dont enforce this kind of stuff how do I enforce the other things as well.

     

  • imageladyredlight:

    Eh - there are bigger battles to fight.  If wearing shorts to him was that important I'd be like go ahead and freeze.  And look stupid with your winter coat, aviator hat and gloves.

    This is how I plan to deal.. lol

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