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So, you know how I pee my pants?
I had my annual with my ladybits doctor last week and we had a come to Jesus meeting and the state of affairs down there. I need to be done having kids before we start down this path, but she wants me to have the 'ol mesh-mesh surgery.
let the bladder sling jokes commence.
le sigh
Re: So, you know how I pee my pants?
Wait, so you're not done having kids?
ARE THE HEZZERLAH'S MADE OF MONEY!
Maybe we should swap husbands. We may be po' but he can fix anything. Whatdayasay?
For less then ten cents a day, you can feed a hungry child.
I have been having major issues with this as well. I am glad there is a solution for you.
I keep meaning to ask if you have been to a PT about it. My PT office specializes in my SPD issues but also in incontinence. If the surgery isn't an option now, could you see about getting a referral for PT to at least maybe have some assistance strategies that could provide some help?
I haven't really looked into anything yet, really. I kinda knew she was going to suggest it, she had mentioned being freaked out by my junk at my 6 week check up after Lo. So, I just took her pamphlet with shame and haven't really read it yet.
Angie, I think we're done. I mean, I have one of each... don't really want to do the baby thing again, so I guess I'm good. It's just the idea of having to make a final decision. And there's one more name I like, which is a completely ridiculous reason, of course. I hate definites.
I bet her FUPA's name is Shane, like the gunslinger/drifter of literature.--HappyTummy
Andrew Brian
aww, that's a sweet name.
I cannot come up with boy names.
I bet her FUPA's name is Shane, like the gunslinger/drifter of literature.--HappyTummy
Girls names are so easy it makes me think this will be a boy too.
I have two boys names I like, Alastair and Bastian, that the H does not like. But girls names are aplenty. Except his favorite I think is Nadja, which I am not a huge huge fan of, I prefer our other girls names. I assume Nadja will get in there somewhere, either middle or first.
Y'all are so European.
I am fresh out of names, but I am also fresh out of babies, so it's ok. I want Kevin to get snipped but he is still trying to coerce me into another. Charlotte just needs to stop being awesome. STOP. BEING. AWESOME.
Which reminds me again that we need to have our awesome daughters play. Preferably in a large, open space without breakables.
For less then ten cents a day, you can feed a hungry child.
One of my friends had twins at the end of last year, and one of the twins was named Andrew Brian.
If we have another boy, he will have to go nameless, because James was the only boy name we could both agree on.
We were the same way with Ethan, so I hope round two yields a vagina. Plus, I really like our girl name, so I want a chance to use it and easier access to cute clothes.
Boy names are hard.
I'm sorry about your vagina Hezz. Your bebeh's are sooooo cute, I don't blame you for considering another.
Baby names are hard. Josephine was easy for us and our next girl name is set, but boys? Yeah I refuse to house a boy in this ute. The circ debate, the poor name choices, the grocery bills after they turn 13, and the smell of their hockey equipment. No I refuse to have a boy. that's just that.
The poster formerly known as PDXPhotoGrl
Bastian=
I bet her FUPA's name is Shane, like the gunslinger/drifter of literature.--HappyTummy
Look on the bright side, Hezz. Think of the guilt you can lay on your children when they get older. "You RUINED my nether regions! I carried you for nine months and I have a BLADDER SLING and you dare to stay out after curfew?!"
I'm about 90% sure we're done, but there's a chance I'll change my mind when Lorne has a real job and we live somewhere else that is larger and perhaps nearer to family. I don't think I will. I also have a girl name I'd like to use, but not enough to have another kid.
Hey at least you found one! I'm thinking this baby is going to have to be nameless, until he can choose one for himself.
Hezz, I feel your pain on the mesh. I have a feeling that surgery is in my future as well.
Baby Boxer is coming! 5.23.12
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This conversation is interesting, because when they told me I needed a c and I was melodramatically sobbing about it, this was one of the things Kevin mentioned as a benefit.
::places a point in the c section column::
For less then ten cents a day, you can feed a hungry child.
Winged/Hezz, please tell me if my dr. is a quack. I called her because I am still having pressure and pain from my vaganus. She wants me to wait until a year post partum to see if we need to go the PT route. I don't know if I can wait. There are some days I feel like someone upper cunted me with a baseball bat. Nothings more sexy than an ice pack between your legs.
Should I wait it out? Find a second opinion?
Sara 7/7/11
Proof that pull and pray does not work if you are an Atheist.~Bethie
I had intended to speak to my doc at my yearly because it took almost that long for the pain to go away for me. It actually went away a month or so before my visit, so Ethan would have been somewhere around a year.