Hi. We moved her from Florida two weeks ago. Up until now, I have been a stay-at-home mom. I have to go back to work, and I am really struggling with finding a pre-school or daycare facility that will accept my daughter (18-months) without vaccinations. We have a family history of bad reactions to vaccines, so it is not safe for her to receive them until she gets much older, if at all.
I don't want this to become a debate on the vaccination issue. I just want to know if anyone knows of a facility that will consider us. I know that Denver has a pretty large liberal population, so I thought maybe there might be some pre-schools that would be ok with this. We would prefer not to go with in-home care.
Thanks in advance for your help. I'm so sad to have to go back to work and just want to find a place that will love my little girl.
Re: Pre-school that doesn't require vaccinations?
I used an alternative/delayed vac schedule and didn't have any problems when asking at daycares, but we also used a licensed in-home preschool/daycare and I only interviewed two centers. Both centers told me that I had to sign a statement about personal reasons for not vaccinating on schedule. I did the same at the JeffCo schools b/c my DS didn't have all his vacs by the time he started there either. It wasn't a problem or issue really b/c I think they see that more often these days, but my son also had about half of his suggested vacs.
Have you found centers that turn you away for that so far? Maybe if you just tell them that you are on a delayed schedule and won't start until your DD is later due to family reactions they would make less of a deal about it, but I'm not sure.
Welcome and good luck.
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Liz's Yarn
Thank you so much for the help, so far. I actually haven't contacted any facilities yet. However, we are anticipating that it will be a problem. Where we came from (much more conservative), we had a really hard time even finding a pediatrician that would see my daughter if we weren't going to stick with the recommended vaccination schedule--even WITH our family history.
If it is true that they require it for licensing, how would one go about getting an exemption?
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Can't answer specifically, but I'm in the medical field, but practice in another state.
Vaccines in schools, even private school, are legally regulated, and to get a license you need all kids to be vaccinated. So a vaccine free preschool would likely not exist.
That said, some are more flexible than others, but, from a medical standpoint, that the the LAST place to put an 18 month old. She will need to rely on limiting her exposure until such a time as she can receive the shots. Putting her around other under vaccinated children is a recipe for medical disaster.
Best situation would be a nanny, or very limited in home care. If that is impossible, then the child's doctor (I assume she sees some sort of specialist - start there) can assist you in applying for and receiving an exemption for medical reasons, and that will allow you to choose a school where all the other children are up to date on shots. It isn't as easy to get a medical exemption as it used to be, but can absolutely be done as long as your daughter has a proven medical issue.
Public school allows you to sign a waiver but your child needs to be a certain age and fully potty trained. You will have a hard time finding a daycare center that will allow un-vaccinated children, perhaps you can find an in home center but again, not sure licensure will allow it.
The daycare/school provides it. Here's the JeffCo one that is online...you can either fill out the top part with the immunizations or fill out the expemptions at the bottom (religious, medical or personal). I've never had it questioned as long as the daycare/facility has it on file, then they are following the regs.
http://www.jeffcopublicschools.org/health/documents/2010-11Certificate%20of%20Immunization.pdf
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DD's preschool "requires" vaccinations but anyone can submit an exemption form.