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So I'm getting the itch to get another tattoo
I really really want one on my side. kind of close to where the bra straps is.
I'm thinking an infiniti sign with the date we got married on it.
WDYT?
Re: So I'm getting the itch to get another tattoo
I want MH to have my face tattooed on his ass, but that doesn't mean it's a good idea.
after google imaging "infinity tattoo date" this was the only one i found. Hopefully your idea is better than what's there
While I appreciate and understand your concern on putting the date on me permanently. This is my husband. The man I married and have been with the better part of 10 years. Not some high school boyfriend. I think I'm compromising by not putting his name on it, just the date.
Maybe I'm just naive and not jaded yet.
That's just me.
Yeah, it doesn't matter what we would do. This is your tattoo, your body, your marriage.
This. It does hurt right there, so beware! But if you want this tattoo, go get it, and don't mind our opinions! I'm itching for #10, and have been thinking about going and getting my next one priced out... so I get feeling the need for a new one.
10? I'm working on my 8th one
Mhm, I haven't gotten one for a year and a half, and I'm dying. Once you get one they're just addictive! Granted I got two the first time I went, but...
Wait! Dude! Everyone attending the GTG this weekend MUST go get the VXS wedding date tattoo!
A tattoo for everyone!
Yessss!
On our honeymoon we got tattoos - he got the never ending knot, and I got two seahorses touching noses and making a heart with the inside of their bodies.
I'll be adding our date in there eventually. I haven't quite figured out how to expand on it (I wanted to add something to the tatt every 5 years)
Guess I'm a debbie downer because I don't like relationship tattoos, no matter who or how long it is. woh wohhhh
But it's YOUR body, do what you want!
to be fair, you did ask what everyone thought.
I say do what you want. Its your body and your tat is supposed to mean something to you. I just 2nd the thought of being careful it isn't placed where it might stretch when you get pg.
Me:32 DH:33
Married Sept 2008
~~TTC Nov 2010~~
Jan 2012 - SA, low numbers and also low T
Mar 2013 - see first Uro - recommends seeing RE
May 2012 - see RE who recommends a new Uro who specializes in MFI
May 2012 - HSG: tubes clear
DH Surgery: 8/30/12- Bi-lateral Varicocele repair
Wait
IUI#1:12/19/12-100mg Clomid(CD3-7)(7M post wash)+ progesterone= BFN
SA:1/11/12- 38%motility, 2% morph
IUI #2: 1/21/13-100mg Clomid(CD3-7)(8M post wash) + progesterone= BFP!! EDD 10/13/13
Beta #1=81.1 Beta #2=134.5 Beta #3=58.1 #4=2369 WTH?!-Not sure if its viable
2/21/13 - Went to RE expecting the worse and saw the flutter of the heart...still measuring small. To God be the Glory!!
2/28/13 - heart rate = 147bpm!! Measuring on target!
3/21 - First OB Appt
~~PAIF/SAIF Welcome~~
Tattoos are supposed to be personal and have special meaning to YOU, it really doesn't matter what anyone else thinks.
That said, while the idea is sweet, most people will be against initials, names, and dates pertaining to relationships because they sort of have a doomed factor to them as if it's a curse. Not to say it has any impact in your own relationship, but it's just how it goes sometimes.
I have kind of wanted one for years but I'm not gonna tell anyone my idea until it's already on my body. If I spent that long of a time frame thinking it out and perfecting a design, I'm not going to let anyone else talk me out of it or tell me it sucks because I don't want to hear it. I either want it permanently or I don't.
I agree. You asked for our opinions but since it isn't lining up with what you want us to say, we are jaded. You can put anything you want on your body but anything specific to relationships is a no-no for me, personally.
I was married that day. No matter what happens in teh future, that date still means something to ME.
And I agree, we have had our issues. Every couple has issues. But we grew stronger because of it. And that's what it symbolizes.
But since the internet never forgets...there you have it.
ETA: Thanks for your honest feedback! I appreciate it. I can always count on you all to be honest ;-)