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never been so upset at my " friend" ( long)

I put friend in quotes bc I can't believe even a stranger would react to a situation we had last night. 

Basically Lucas and I went into the city for a late celebration for her b day. We were also meeting another friend there. We came all the way from Cherry Hill and we didn't see her.

We agreed to met at a restaurant which had 2 locations and I asked her if we could meet at one location and she ended up going to the other location. When we got there we didn't see her, so I called her and asked where she was. She was so angry at me for not being at " her " location even though my other friend was was aware of the " correct" location.  We took a cab to her location and asked her to wait for us. But she said ( while we were in the cab) that she left. It took literally 10 mins to get to her. 

So she went off at me( texting) for " disrespecting " her by not being at her location and left. She wouldn't even answer her phone so we could talk.I have never seen my husband so *** pissed off in my life. If you know him you know he never gets upset about stuff.  

I was happy my other friend stayed with us and we did have a great time. At the end of the night she emailed us both and said she was sorry but I don't believe she was. I know my other friend called and spoke with her and that's why she said she was sorry.

I have been friends with her since hs and we have had our ups and downs. But I am done with caring about her. I always put aside her bi polar and take her as she is. But I am starting to think it is her bi polar and sometimes I can't deal with her. 

Re: never been so upset at my " friend" ( long)

  • I'm really sorry. As I get older I have less and less patience for this crap.
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  • imageAmyRob04:
    I'm really sorry. As I get older I have less and less patience for this crap.

    This exactly. We're all adults now, it's not HS and we need to be responsible for how we treat each other. Emails, texts and half hearted apologies don't cut it for me anymore. If she wants to sincerely apologize, let her come to you. Sometimes friendships aren't meant to last.

    I'm sorry that you had to go through this. 


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  • As an adult, she's responsible for getting a handle on her issues. I'd certainly distance myself from this person. Who needs that crap?
  • imageturtle520:

    imageAmyRob04:
    I'm really sorry. As I get older I have less and less patience for this crap.

    This exactly. We're all adults know, it's not HS and we need to be responsible for how we treat each other. Emails, texts and half hearted apologies don't cut it for me anymore. If she wants to sincerely apologize, let her come to you. Sometimes friendships aren't meant to last.

    I'm sorry that you had to go through this. 

    Time to grow up...no more high school ***.  Texts don't do it...she needs to call you.

  • WOW.  I'd be done with her too.
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  • I don't blame you for being upset and done with her - you have good reason!  No room for that nonsense in life...
  • wow...you definately dont need or deserve that! Distance yourself...she really sounds toxic!
  • She sounds off her rocker. Be glad she left because she would have made your night miserable. Sorry you had to go through that.
  • i don't think being bipolar is an excuse.  she needs to see a dr and get her medication adjusted or get on meds.  if she was that upset she should have said she was leaving and allowed you to stay at your original location

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  • thanks for your words, she e mailed me this morning ( again) and I told her how I felt. We were invited to a superbowl party by a mutual friend so of course I will say hello but I won't go out of my way for her
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