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Really - to WISH a C section on someone?

To wish that the gender is wrong? To wish that she has  hard labor?

 

And  you call me cunty? 

 

She may be crazy but you all are fukked up. 

Re: Really - to WISH a C section on someone?

  • Yes, apparently, if you tells someone something they don't want to hear, you're angry and judgmental.  Wishing a hard labor on a crazy girl is completely normal and acceptable.

     

  • I dont wish a hard labor or anything negative on the girl. She lives in la la land. Once her gina is busted open and stitched up and she bleeds through diapers and has to put ice packs on her labia, she will prob think, maybe this spandex striped dress was a tad much. Is it bad if I get wheeled out to my 1989 corolla in the forever lazy and some fake uggs?

    She is totally unrealistic about all things pregnant and postpartum. You can plan your life until you turn blue in the face but it doesnt mean that it will turn out that way. 

    "catching gay" is the new "winning."

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  • Thanks for the warning....  I won't even go look for the thread.  Does it really matter if she is a little out there? People spend all kinds of time planning their weddings, vacations, car purchases, etc.  No one bats an eye.  You plan your birth and people think you are completely wacky and wish you the opposite. 

    Having been through both a c-section and a vaginal birth, I would never in a bazillion years wish a c-section on someone. I'll take a stitched up bleeding vagina.  Of course I'm still dealing with a bleeding vaginal 7 weeks post c-section....

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  • It's not like we're wishing her dead...just thought her over planning and obsessiveness was comical and over the top.
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  • imageatwood345:
    It's not like we're wishing her dead...just thought her over planning and obsessiveness was comical and over the top.

    So wishing major abdominal surgery on her is better?   Wow.  

  • Ok maybe we should wish that her kid "catches the gay" instead.
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  • imagedebfife:
    Ok maybe we should wish that her kid "catches the gay" instead.
    lol, that would be even more devastating for her, lol.
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  • imageAmyRob04:
    imagedebfife:
    Ok maybe we should wish that her kid "catches the gay" instead.
    lol, that would be even more devastating for her, lol.

    instead of wishing they got the gender wrong, I now hope that her DD is a total tomboy and hates all things girly.  

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  • you seriously think anyone saying they wish a c/s or boy on her is serious? I think it is all in jest, as she is over the top and self absorbed. 

    I think some people here are a bit too serious-  

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    imageatwood345:
    It's not like we're wishing her dead...just thought her over planning and obsessiveness was comical and over the top.

    So wishing major abdominal surgery on her is better?   Wow.  

    Firstly, I didnt wish a C upon her at all. Secondly, yes, death and surgery are totally different! 

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  • Did anyone WISH a C section on her? I simply said she's totally going to have one... Because I feel like that is what happens when you try to control your childbirth (or anything else in life)...... The world throws you a curve ball.
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  • Didn't read that other thread but no need to now...I think Pat's just trying to come up with any excuse to use her new favorite word, cunty!
  • Lighten up, Buttercup!  I honestly hope everything goes as perfectly for her as possible.  But the best laid plans often go astray.
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  • i wish an incorrect gender eval on ANYONE who is that Type A.  sometimes you need to learn the hard way that not everything is within your control.  i wouldn't have been freaked out if I had a wrong gender eval (in fact, i kind of expected it.)

    and seriously, WTF is up your a$$ lately pat?  it's not like i brought up a nasty break up to that person on a public board.  i hardly think they're comparable.

     

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    I don't care enough to wish anything whatsoever on this girl. Except maybe a little cellulite. I think she sounds like she has a huge case narcissistic personality disorder but that's for a doctor to diagnose her with. I highly doubt anyone here is losing sleep over her brand of crazy

    But if you're going to sit here and act like you've never wished anything less than an abundance of good things to everyone you've ever encountered on the internet and/or in real life then you're lying. What about the neighbor who let her dog loose and didn't say thanks? I'm sure you weren't wishing her hugs, kisses, light & love.

    Come. On.

  • imagelaurenpetro:

    i wish an incorrect gender eval on ANYONE who is that Type A.  sometimes you need to learn the hard way that not everything is within your control.  i wouldn't have been freaked out if I had a wrong gender eval (in fact, i kind of expected it.)

    and seriously, WTF is up your a$$ lately pat?  it's not like i brought up a nasty break up to that person on a public board.  i hardly think they're comparable.

     

     

    You have a point but the person in question did wish food poisoning on the ex wife of the man she is dating so perhaps she got at good as she age - no? 

  • imageTSD:

    I don't care enough to wish anything whatsoever on this girl. Except maybe a little cellulite. I think she sounds like she has a huge case narcissistic personality disorder but that's for a doctor to diagnose her with. I highly doubt anyone here is losing sleep over her brand of crazy

    But if you're going to sit here and act like you've never wished anything less than an abundance of good things to everyone you've ever encountered on the internet and/or in real life then you're lying. What about the neighbor who let her dog loose and didn't say thanks? I'm sure you weren't wishing her hugs, kisses, light & love.

    Come. On.

     

    Yes. You're right. I was pissed. I am, in fact still a bit put out. So put out that I immediately thought, "Gee I hope she has something really crappy befalls her." Maybe that is why I went outdoors in my pajamas and bare feet  to get her dog, and take it home. I mean if I had been really evil I'd ahve stood on the porch laughing while it got hit. That would have fixed her a$$, wouldn't it?

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    imagewrysmyguy:
    imageTSD:

    I don't care enough to wish anything whatsoever on this girl. Except maybe a little cellulite. I think she sounds like she has a huge case narcissistic personality disorder but that's for a doctor to diagnose her with. I highly doubt anyone here is losing sleep over her brand of crazy

    But if you're going to sit here and act like you've never wished anything less than an abundance of good things to everyone you've ever encountered on the internet and/or in real life then you're lying. What about the neighbor who let her dog loose and didn't say thanks? I'm sure you weren't wishing her hugs, kisses, light & love.

    Come. On.

     

    Yes. You're right. I was pissed. I am, in fact still a bit put out. So put out that I immediately thought, "Gee I hope she has something really crappy befalls her." Maybe that is why I went outdoors in my pajamas and bare feet  to get her dog, and take it home. I mean if I had been really evil I'd ahve stood on the porch laughing while it got hit. That would have fixed her a$$, wouldn't it?

    You didn't know she wasn't going to say thank you until after you did all that. So yeah, you were pissed and again I am going to go out on a limb and say you probably weren't wishing she would have a fantastic day after she didn't say thanks.

    That cunty comment really chapped your ass huh? I wouldn't have figured you to be so sensitive. Cunty isn't so bad in my book. 

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    imagewrysmyguy:
    imagelaurenpetro:

    i wish an incorrect gender eval on ANYONE who is that Type A.  sometimes you need to learn the hard way that not everything is within your control.  i wouldn't have been freaked out if I had a wrong gender eval (in fact, i kind of expected it.)

    and seriously, WTF is up your a$$ lately pat?  it's not like i brought up a nasty break up to that person on a public board.  i hardly think they're comparable.

     

     

    You have a point but the person in question did wish food poisoning on the ex wife of the man she is dating so perhaps she got at good as she age - no? 

    Why do you care so much what other people are wishing on others? I'm finding this so bizarre. I'm sure most of it is in jest. Not to mention that unless you believe in magic I'm pretty sure no one here can Jedi-mind-trick food poisoning or c-sections. And if they can, I'd like the lottery numbers while they're at it. 

  • imageTSD:
    imagewrysmyguy:
    imagelaurenpetro:

    i wish an incorrect gender eval on ANYONE who is that Type A.  sometimes you need to learn the hard way that not everything is within your control.  i wouldn't have been freaked out if I had a wrong gender eval (in fact, i kind of expected it.)

    and seriously, WTF is up your a$$ lately pat?  it's not like i brought up a nasty break up to that person on a public board.  i hardly think they're comparable.

     

     

    You have a point but the person in question did wish food poisoning on the ex wife of the man she is dating so perhaps she got at good as she age - no? 

    Why do you care so much what other people are wishing on others? I'm finding this so bizarre. I'm sure most of it is in jest. Not to mention that unless you believe in magic I'm pretty sure no one here can Jedi-mind-trick food poisoning or c-sections. And if they can, I'd like the lottery numbers while they're at it. 

     

    LOL I will remember that the next time someone asks for P and PT, Nestie Vibes or talks about the Karma Bus.

  • imagewrysmyguy:
    imagelaurenpetro:

    i wish an incorrect gender eval on ANYONE who is that Type A.  sometimes you need to learn the hard way that not everything is within your control.  i wouldn't have been freaked out if I had a wrong gender eval (in fact, i kind of expected it.)

    and seriously, WTF is up your a$$ lately pat?  it's not like i brought up a nasty break up to that person on a public board.  i hardly think they're comparable.

     

     

    You have a point but the person in question did wish food poisoning on the ex wife of the man she is dating so perhaps she got at good as she age - no? 

    Oh well then that makes it all better :eyeroll: you say intentionally nasty and cruel things DIRECTLY to people and hide under the cloak of "I'm just being honest!!!" which is total bullish!t. You get off on being nasty to people for whatever reason and whatever, that's your thing. Don't go trying to make other people worse than you are when it's clearly not the case.
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  • Either I am getting old or the nest is so boring I can't be bothered to remember who called who what, but refresh my old mind---who called Pat cu!nty?

    I've been called way worse, lol. I'd take it as a compliment, actually. LOL!

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    Either I am getting old or the nest is so boring I can't be bothered to remember who called who what, but refresh my old mind---who called Pat cu!nty?

    I've been called way worse, lol. I'd take it as a compliment, actually. LOL!

     Um, that would be me....and she hasn't missed an opportunity yet to refer back to it.
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  • imageKari78:
    imageFrancoiseFilly:

    Either I am getting old or the nest is so boring I can't be bothered to remember who called who what, but refresh my old mind---who called Pat cu!nty?

    I've been called way worse, lol. I'd take it as a compliment, actually. LOL!

     Um, that would be me....and she hasn't missed an opportunity yet to refer back to it.

    further proof of why i love you.

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  • I don't know exactly what happened, but I know you're extremely blunt, Pat.  Sometimes to the point where I cringe.  Many people don't like what you say, but you've never seemed to care.  I'm surprised, frankly, that you haven't been called cun!ty before.  Why does this seem to bother you now?  You've always been unapologetic about your coarse delivery.  I'm not saying that name calling is appropriate, but when you deal with the bull, you get the horns, you know?
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  • imageCLord:
    Lighten up, Buttercup!  I honestly hope everything goes as perfectly for her as possible.  But the best laid plans often go astray.

    Ditto this. And I love "lighten up Buttercup" - I may try to use that IRL. :)

    Man this was a weird thread.

  • imagelaurenpetro:
    imageKari78:
    imageFrancoiseFilly:

    Either I am getting old or the nest is so boring I can't be bothered to remember who called who what, but refresh my old mind---who called Pat cu!nty?

    I've been called way worse, lol. I'd take it as a compliment, actually. LOL!

     Um, that would be me....and she hasn't missed an opportunity yet to refer back to it.

    further proof of why i love you.

     Back atcha sister ;)
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  • imageKari78:
    imageFrancoiseFilly:

    Either I am getting old or the nest is so boring I can't be bothered to remember who called who what, but refresh my old mind---who called Pat cu!nty?

    I've been called way worse, lol. I'd take it as a compliment, actually. LOL!

     Um, that would be me....and she hasn't missed an opportunity yet to refer back to it.

    Well, you call em like you see em. Ain't no harm in that. Stick out tongue 


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  • imageLeeba25:

    imageCLord:
    Lighten up, Buttercup!  I honestly hope everything goes as perfectly for her as possible.  But the best laid plans often go astray.

    Ditto this. And I love "lighten up Buttercup" - I may try to use that IRL. :)

    Man this was a weird thread.

    Glad I could amuse you-- I'm full of quirky little adages, lol!   

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