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Invitation wording help?

My mom and I are throwing a couples baby shower for my brother and his fiance. My mom is wanting it mostly just to be a party and for people to bring gifts, but not necessarily wrapped. It's going to be a New Orleans theme and she's cooking jambalaya and red beans and rice. I have no idea how to word this and I'm in charge of sending invites. Any ideas?
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Re: Invitation wording help?

  • Okay, you can't control the wrapping of gifts in an invite without ending up on some website as a prime example of what not to do.  I'd probably just say "It's a Mardi Gras Baby Shower!  Come celebrate X and Y's impending arrival New Orleans style with traditional Mardi Gras fare and fun."  Just cut to the chase.  I'd probably also buy a King Cake somewhere to go with what you are having.


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  • I totally agree. My mom is trying to get out of hosting a 'baby shower' but still wants my brother to receive gifts. I think it's really tacky to ask that the gifts be unwrapped. It's what they did for my cousin's wedding shower and now my mom thinks it's ok.  I guess that's part of where my hang up was :)
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  • You could ask for eco-friendly wrapping please, or something like that.  You'd have to use eco-friendly invites, of course, and you'd want to make an effort at the party too (no disposable utensils or plates, cloth napkins, etc) so it's apparent that it's a family value.  Our family and friends know us well enough to know that gifts need to be not wrapped or put in recycled paper/boxes/bags only because we're green in general ; )
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