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Did you do anything special for DH when you gave birth?

I was thinking that birth is so focused on the mom and the baby, but this is a huge, life-changing experience for DH, as well! Did any of you do anything special for your DH? I was thinking of something simple like writing him a long letter or something, but wondered if anyone had something cute/creative...TIA!
Eric and Amanda 9.1.07
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Re: Did you do anything special for DH when you gave birth?

  • I gave him babies :). Oh, and I let him feed me bananas while I BF
  • I didn't kill him while I was in labor.  Dropped a few f-bombs but was totally noviolent.

    I think your note is very sweet.  He'll just be happy when you won't be in pain anymore.  ;)

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  • A heartfelt letter or card would be great...it's such an emtional time.  I asked friends to bring some of his favorite beer to the hospital so he could celebrate his daddy moment.  Could you sneak a growler or 6-pack with you or have a friend drop one off after the birth?

     

     

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  • imageDownToEarthGirl:

     Could you sneak a growler or 6-pack with you or have a friend drop one off after the birth?

    Ha! I think he's already planning to bring his own! (and I'm planning to drink some of it, too! I miss beer!)

    Eric and Amanda 9.1.07
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  • I did something similar with both kids.  I also got him a children's book for him to read to the boys.  I gave these to him before going to the hospital.  I told him I wanted him to have this good memory of me before I got "ugly".
  • I ordered his favorite cupcakes and had my MIL bring them to the hospital the next day after DS was born - but that was because it was his birthday, not because he was becoming a Dad again.
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  • I found this and thought it was adorable, and it will make him know that you have been and are thinking of him.  Plus he will probably need it all, the day of ;)

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  • After I spat at my computer LOL'ing at your post I realized that you are super sweet and a really thoughtful wife.

    I'm in the "I had my guts splayed open and my uterus yanked outside of my body to give birth to your child, ain't that enough?" camp.  

    But I do remember the days when I would have thought along the lines that you are!  I hope you never loose that desire to do special things for him regardless of how crazy life is for you 2 after kids.


    Our IF journey: 1 m/c, 1 IVF with only 3 eggs retrieved yielding Dylan and a lost twin, 1 shocker unmedicated BFP resulting in Jace, 3 more unmedicated pregnancies ending in more losses.
    Total score: 6 pregnancies, 5 losses, 2 amazing blessings that I'm thankful for every single day.
  • imagehowleyshell:
    I hope you never loose that desire to do special things for him regardless of how crazy life is for you 2 after kids.

    I didn't write this post to be funny, I was being sincere!

    I hope that you're right that we never lose the feelings we have for each other post-kids!

    Eric and Amanda 9.1.07
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  • You're so close!  I hope your labor and delivery go well :)
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  • Nope.

    He got a kid out of the deal. 

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