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Twin Mommies -- will she have a choice?
My former coworker's wife is pregnant with twins. They have two older kids and she went completely drug free and was very adamant about no epidural. I joked with him that she was insane but really I admire her for doing it. One was an induction and I know for me that pitocin induced contractions hurt more than my natural ones.
Anyway, will she even have the option this time around? I only know two women with twins in real life. Both delivered vaginally but one had to deliver in an OR "just in case" and one had to have an epidural (that she didn't want) "just in case". Is that that standard? To force an epidural?
Just curious.
Re: Twin Mommies -- will she have a choice?
I know 3 women who had twins and all had C/S actually
I get not wanting drugs (well not really) BUT, in this situation I would be scared sh!t less of my #2 going into distress and I wouldnt want them to have to waste time doing a spinal so they could cut me open. As a Dr I could see how insisting on an epi would make the Dr more comfortable, then the wishes of the mom which while important, the health of the baby would come first
sure it's possible. my stepbrother's wife had their twins naturally. she had meds but the epidural rarely has anything to do with it.
my guess is they'll DO the epidural but not administer any meds unless they have to do an emergency c/s if she's really adamant about not having any drugs.
I would imagine it will depend both on the doc she chooses and hospital policies. I know for my VBAC I was required to get the epidural catheter placed, it was up to me whether they put meds through it. This was a hospital regulation and is pretty standard VBAC protocol from what I understand. I wouldn't be surprised if there were a similar rule for multiples.
If there was an emergency and they needed to move quickly and did not have an epidural port ready to go she would risk needing general anesthesia (this happened to my SIL with her second birth) and would not be awake for the procedure. But this is a slim risk with any birth, not just multiples.
my cousin's wife went naturally with her twins...she was at her ob's office for a check up, and was sent to the hospital bc she was in labor...by the time they got there, there really wasn't much time for an epi...
that said, she is one of those women that was made to have babies...
My cousin has 2 sets of twins 5 years apart and all 4 were delivered with no epi. I know one set baby A was head down and B was breach but turned after A was out.
A friend delivered 1 vaginally and then had to have a C for the second. The rest of the twins I know have all been delivered via c-section.
I just realized I know ALOT of twins. lol
that is the most horrific sentence i've ever read.
ladies, if any of you ever considered me a badass i can tell you straight up that this is the stuff of my nightmares.
I think she was batshitcrazy! But what do I know. I wanted a C-section. lol