oh pooey, i'm upset right now

turtle520

After years of commuting to Morristown every day with a 2+ hour commute round trip, sitting in traffic on rte 80 or 287 and missing time with my family, I finally found a job with an awesome commute, close to home and amazing hours. It's afforded me the ability to drop off W at school on some mornings, pick him up in the afternoon and just feel like a better mother.

Now, the new job is moving to Fairfield. Really? Sure, it's the 1/2 way point between the old commute but really?? WTF universe. Why can't I ever win, huh? Why doesn't anything ever work out for me. I'm starting to loose count of the number of times that I've thought I found the "perfect" job only for it to blow up in my face.

I seriously am tired of this ***.

ddelo23

If it makes you feel any better, we can do lunch (liquid lunch once i'm not pregnant)   I work very close.  You know that's a plus side to the new move! haha

ATSBRIDE

ddelo23:

If it makes you feel any better, we can do lunch (liquid lunch once i'm not pregnant)   I work very close.  You know that's a plus side to the new move! haha

Ditto!  Which reminds me, we're overdue for lunch ... 

ddelo23

ATSBRIDE:

ddelo23:

If it makes you feel any better, we can do lunch (liquid lunch once i'm not pregnant)   I work very close.  You know that's a plus side to the new move! haha

Ditto!  Which reminds me, we're overdue for lunch ... 

better than overdue for delivery!   I'm free whenever, let me know!

Kristen81603

lets put it in perspective though- it is not a horrible commute- fairfield depending on where is not as bad as Morristown- and the roads you will have to travel are nothing like 287- plus, the hours will still be great- yeah it stinks that they are moving- but if they don't move, maybe that means no job to do? right? 

I just really hate the term FML- I just think nothing is that bad- yes it sucks- but this is really not so awful that life is going to be horrendous now- breath- and it will all be ok- 

ATSBRIDE

ddelo23:

ATSBRIDE:

ddelo23:

If it makes you feel any better, we can do lunch (liquid lunch once i'm not pregnant)   I work very close.  You know that's a plus side to the new move! haha

Ditto!  Which reminds me, we're overdue for lunch ... 

better than overdue for delivery!   I'm free whenever, let me know!

Monday?  

ddelo23

ATSBRIDE:

ddelo23:

ATSBRIDE:

ddelo23:

If it makes you feel any better, we can do lunch (liquid lunch once i'm not pregnant)   I work very close.  You know that's a plus side to the new move! haha

Ditto!  Which reminds me, we're overdue for lunch ... 

better than overdue for delivery!   I'm free whenever, let me know!

Monday?  

that works for me.

wed2506

Kristen81603:

I just really hate the term FML- I just think nothing is that bad- yes it sucks- but this is really not so awful that life is going to be horrendous now- breath- and it will all be ok- 

I agree!

That does suck but for the time you have left before the move, enjoy it. Also, would it be possible to negotiate working from home one day a week to make up for the move? Can't hurt to ask!

kellyann1972

wed2506:

Kristen81603:

I just really hate the term FML- I just think nothing is that bad- yes it sucks- but this is really not so awful that life is going to be horrendous now- breath- and it will all be ok- 

I agree!

That does suck but for the time you have left before the move, enjoy it. Also, would it be possible to negotiate working from home one day a week to make up for the move? Can't hurt to ask!

perspective please. This is a FML? Come on, you have a shorter commute...

BeachBaby07

wed2506:

Kristen81603:

I just really hate the term FML- I just think nothing is that bad- yes it sucks- but this is really not so awful that life is going to be horrendous now- breath- and it will all be ok- 

I agree!

That does suck but for the time you have left before the move, enjoy it. Also, would it be possible to negotiate working from home one day a week to make up for the move? Can't hurt to ask!

Agree agree!

Yeah it sucks but you actually still have a job, that you seem to like, that allows you to be on the nest during the day so you cant be chained to your phone all day so busy your head might explode.  Glass 1/2 full.

melbride2005

BeachBaby07:

Yeah it sucks but you actually still have a job, that you seem to like, that allows you to be on the nest during the day so you cant be chained to your phone all day so busy your head might explode.  Glass 1/2 full.

this made me laugh...and it's very true!  definitely not a FML...and I hate that term too.

turtle520

It's the fact that after months of looking for something that would provide me a better quality of life, I'm back to where I was. Driving a shitastic commute on a highway that is prone to major traffic and delays.

I appreciate the, "you still have a job," I get the whole glass 1/2 full, I hear the "have perspective" but you know what....it's not your life, now is it???? My priorities don't include wasting over an hour in the car every day. THAT'S WHY I FOUND A NEW JOB. So excuse me that I'm a little pissed off right now. Some people like to work close to home. I'm one of those people. And now I have to start all over again. 

 

ddelo23

turtle520:

It's the fact that after months of looking for something that would provide me a better quality of life, I'm back to where I was. Driving a shitastic commute on a highway that is prone to major traffic and delays.

I appreciate the, "you still have a job," I get the whole glass 1/2 full, I hear the "have perspective" but you know what....it's not your life, now is it???? My priorities don't include wasting over an hour in the car every day. THAT'S WHY I FOUND A NEW JOB. So excuse me that I'm a little pissed off right now. Some people like to work close to home. I'm one of those people. And now I have to start all over again. 

 

So you DON'T wanna get lunch when you make the move?

BeachBaby07

turtle520:

It's the fact that after months of looking for something that would provide me a better quality of life, I'm back to where I was. Driving a shitastic commute on a highway that is prone to major traffic and delays.

I appreciate the, "you still have a job," I get the whole glass 1/2 full, I hear the "have perspective" but you know what....it's not your life, now is it???? My priorities don't include wasting over an hour in the car every day. THAT'S WHY I FOUND A NEW JOB. So excuse me that I'm a little pissed off right now. Some people like to work close to home. I'm one of those people. And now I have to start all over again. 

 

then say that....Say DAMN, I am so pissed, my new job wasnt the fix I needed. You explained yourself perfectly that anyone can understand why in fact you would be so disappointed and angry

but FML, well we pointed out why in fact your life isnt f-ed, it just isnt working out like you have planned and hoped. I am sure we are get that and sympathize

LaKi

That blows and I'm sorry.  You're entitled to feel how you feel.

Take a few days to absorb this.  Maybe it won't be that bad.  Like someone suggested, is there anyway to adjust your hours?  4 day weeks, or a WFM option? 

vedahanks

Boo... t hat stinks :-(  Just when you think you're settled...

Andrea0429

I'm sorry.  That really sucks.  They've been discussing an office move for us for over a year now.  It'll probably lengthen my commute, but it's still a much easier commute than when I used to go to the city.

I also just wanted to chime in with everybody that hates the the phrase FML.  It is so overused.  I hate when people will be like, no diet coke in the vending machine, FML!  Keep things in perspective people!

molldoll71

Don't you know you should be happy you have a job and suck it up?!

Kidding!

That sucks.  I am sorry! 

hookersbabe

ddelo23:

turtle520:

It's the fact that after months of looking for something that would provide me a better quality of life, I'm back to where I was. Driving a shitastic commute on a highway that is prone to major traffic and delays.

I appreciate the, "you still have a job," I get the whole glass 1/2 full, I hear the "have perspective" but you know what....it's not your life, now is it???? My priorities don't include wasting over an hour in the car every day. THAT'S WHY I FOUND A NEW JOB. So excuse me that I'm a little pissed off right now. Some people like to work close to home. I'm one of those people. And now I have to start all over again. 

 

So you DON'T wanna get lunch when you make the move?

LMAO!!!!

molldoll71

hookersbabe:

ddelo23:

turtle520:

It's the fact that after months of looking for something that would provide me a better quality of life, I'm back to where I was. Driving a shitastic commute on a highway that is prone to major traffic and delays.

I appreciate the, "you still have a job," I get the whole glass 1/2 full, I hear the "have perspective" but you know what....it's not your life, now is it???? My priorities don't include wasting over an hour in the car every day. THAT'S WHY I FOUND A NEW JOB. So excuse me that I'm a little pissed off right now. Some people like to work close to home. I'm one of those people. And now I have to start all over again. 

 

So you DON'T wanna get lunch when you make the move?

LMAO!!!!

LOL

Kristen81603

turtle520:

It's the fact that after months of looking for something that would provide me a better quality of life, I'm back to where I was. Driving a shitastic commute on a highway that is prone to major traffic and delays.

I appreciate the, "you still have a job," I get the whole glass 1/2 full, I hear the "have perspective" but you know what....it's not your life, now is it???? My priorities don't include wasting over an hour in the car every day. THAT'S WHY I FOUND A NEW JOB. So excuse me that I'm a little pissed off right now. Some people like to work close to home. I'm one of those people. And now I have to start all over again. 

 

I get what you are saying and it does suck- I don't think anyone is saying it doesn't, but that until it happens see what it will be like- Fairfield isn't that far- at least from me- it only takes me about 20-25 minutes- so there may be other options to drive there- Would they allow 4 day work week? All I am saying is that it is not the end of the world- and you can work out your annoyance tonight at bootcamp! 

jessNdean

ddelo23:

If it makes you feel any better, we can do lunch (liquid lunch once i'm not pregnant)   I work very close.  You know that's a plus side to the new move! haha

ha me too! i'm 5 mins away!

ilovefalafel

BeachBaby07:

turtle520:

It's the fact that after months of looking for something that would provide me a better quality of life, I'm back to where I was. Driving a shitastic commute on a highway that is prone to major traffic and delays.

I appreciate the, "you still have a job," I get the whole glass 1/2 full, I hear the "have perspective" but you know what....it's not your life, now is it???? My priorities don't include wasting over an hour in the car every day. THAT'S WHY I FOUND A NEW JOB. So excuse me that I'm a little pissed off right now. Some people like to work close to home. I'm one of those people. And now I have to start all over again. 

 

then say that....Say DAMN, I am so pissed, my new job wasnt the fix I needed. You explained yourself perfectly that anyone can understand why in fact you would be so disappointed and angry

but FML, well we pointed out why in fact your life isnt f-ed, it just isnt working out like you have planned and hoped. I am sure we are get that and sympathize

she is a grown up.  she can say what she wants and how she wants it.  who cares!!

laurenpetro

this is no offense to you regina or to anyone else who doesn't like driving but i have a 55 minute commute on the very best traffic day ever.  i just can't get worked up over a 30 minute commute.  i take that back, i could get worked up over it if that was my option.  i'd LOVE that kind of commute.

it does suck in the "Hey!  that's gas money i didn't budget for!" kind of way.  IDK if this is FML level but it does suck.

TrishB98

laurenpetro:

this is no offense to you regina or to anyone else who doesn't like driving but i have a 55 minute commute on the very best traffic day ever.  i just can't get worked up over a 30 minute commute.  i take that back, i could get worked up over it if that was my option.  i'd LOVE that kind of commute.

it does suck in the "Hey!  that's gas money i didn't budget for!" kind of way.  IDK if this is FML level but it does suck.

I

You took the words out of my mouth!

mccw

Sorry but this is def not a case for FML, try and put things back into perspective.

AmyRob04

Christ,people, with the amount if idiotic things people *** about on here ad nauseum, she's allowed to complain about a changing commute when it's not what she signed up for. 

 

Regina, I'm sorry, I know you left your last gig for this very reason. I have a feeling that this won't be as bad as you're anticipating. I'm doing the same thing starting Monday - going from 5 minutes to what will be anywhere from 35 to god only knows how long. Granted, mine is by choice, but it's definitely daunting! 

turtle520

ddelo23:

turtle520:

It's the fact that after months of looking for something that would provide me a better quality of life, I'm back to where I was. Driving a shitastic commute on a highway that is prone to major traffic and delays.

I appreciate the, "you still have a job," I get the whole glass 1/2 full, I hear the "have perspective" but you know what....it's not your life, now is it???? My priorities don't include wasting over an hour in the car every day. THAT'S WHY I FOUND A NEW JOB. So excuse me that I'm a little pissed off right now. Some people like to work close to home. I'm one of those people. And now I have to start all over again. 

So you DON'T wanna get lunch when you make the move?

LMAO. I'd love to!

ddelo23

turtle520:

ddelo23:

turtle520:

It's the fact that after months of looking for something that would provide me a better quality of life, I'm back to where I was. Driving a shitastic commute on a highway that is prone to major traffic and delays.

I appreciate the, "you still have a job," I get the whole glass 1/2 full, I hear the "have perspective" but you know what....it's not your life, now is it???? My priorities don't include wasting over an hour in the car every day. THAT'S WHY I FOUND A NEW JOB. So excuse me that I'm a little pissed off right now. Some people like to work close to home. I'm one of those people. And now I have to start all over again. 

So you DON'T wanna get lunch when you make the move?

LMAO. I'd love to!

so you're TELLING ME THERE'S A CHANCE!

MrsGabbs4Ed

mccw:

Sorry but this is def not a case for FML, try and put things back into perspective.

I agree.

turtle520

AmyRob04:

Christ,people, with the amount if idiotic things people *** about on here ad nauseum, she's allowed to complain about a changing commute when it's not what she signed up for. 

 

Regina, I'm sorry, I know you left your last gig for this very reason. I have a feeling that this won't be as bad as you're anticipating. I'm doing the same thing starting Monday - going from 5 minutes to what will be anywhere from 35 to god only knows how long. Granted, mine is by choice, but it's definitely daunting! 

Thanks Amy. And I have to leave Tice's Corner all over again. THE HORROR!!!!