FML

molldoll71

Isn't the term supposed to be just a saying and not meant to be taken literally.  Like when you say "shoot me now " or just plain "f me".  I really don't get why this annoys so many people.  Is it different?

ddelo23

molldoll71:

Isn't the term supposed to be just a saying and not meant to be taken literally.  Like when you say "shoot me now " or just plain "f me".  I really don't get why this annoys so many people.  Is it different?

while I don't use it myself (though I do say shoot me now...often), I still give you a good 'ol hearty

ladyredlight

Because it can

 

hookersbabe

i think its just the recent overuse that strikes people...

but then again, its not really something that bothers me, so i could be wrong...

ilovefalafel

it seems like a lot of things bother people here.  FML is not a big deal lol

Kristen81603

I think it is something that is taken to extreme- I just don't like it- just like I don't like the c word- I just think it takes the meaning to far. 

ddelo23

Perhaps "Stick a Penis in my Life" would be a much better way of putting it, Regina.  Try that one next time, maybe you won't get so much backlash   Same meaning, much less harsh, I suppose.

melbride2005

Oh I didn't say it was a big deal...I just said I didn't like it.  I'm sure overuse has something to do with it, along with the fact that to me it just shows lack of perspective.  Much different to me than "shoot me now"...why, I'm not sure, but it just is.

But again, that's my opinion, and I certainly don't expect everyone to agree with me. 

wed2506

I don't use F* me or shoot me for the same reasons I don't use or like FML. Maybe I am taking it literally but it's one if those things that how could you not. I totally get being annoyed and upset about a situation like Regina's, I would be too! But to use that term just seems silly. Just my opinion 

N&V0514

ddelo23:

Perhaps "Stick a Penis in my Life" .

I may have to start using this.

LaKi

N&V0514:

ddelo23:

Perhaps "Stick a Penis in my Life" .

I may have to start using this.

Awesome. 

Kristen81603

melbride2005:

Oh I didn't say it was a big deal...I just said I didn't like it.  I'm sure overuse has something to do with it, along with the fact that to me it just shows lack of perspective.  Much different to me than "shoot me now"...why, I'm not sure, but it just is.

But again, that's my opinion, and I certainly don't expect everyone to agree with me. 

agree 

Andrea0429

melbride2005:

Oh I didn't say it was a big deal...I just said I didn't like it.  I'm sure overuse has something to do with it, along with the fact that to me it just shows lack of perspective.  Much different to me than "shoot me now"...why, I'm not sure, but it just is.

But again, that's my opinion, and I certainly don't expect everyone to agree with me. 

I agree.  I think for me, "shoot me" is more of a saying because you don't really expect someone to pull out a gun and do it.  When people use FML, it feels like they really think what just happened is the worst thing that could ever happen to anyone.  And you don't know if they really think that or they just feel like exaggerating.  But Melissa hit it on the head, it's really the lack of perspective that bothers me. 

MrsGabbs4Ed

I see lots of my teenage and college age cousins use it all the time....for ridiculous reasons.  I too, think that the overuse, the reason for using it and the maturity level of the people using it is what can make it annoying.

Speaking of the C word, I saw a funny pic on FB today.  It said "I'd call you a c*nt but you don't have the depth or warmth".  It made me think of the overuse of the word here lately.

ddelo23

Andrea0429:

melbride2005:

Oh I didn't say it was a big deal...I just said I didn't like it.  I'm sure overuse has something to do with it, along with the fact that to me it just shows lack of perspective.  Much different to me than "shoot me now"...why, I'm not sure, but it just is.

But again, that's my opinion, and I certainly don't expect everyone to agree with me. 

I agree.  I think for me, "shoot me" is more of a saying because you don't really expect someone to pull out a gun and do it.  When people use FML, it feels like they really think what just happened is the worst thing that could ever happen to anyone.  And you don't know if they really think that or they just feel like exaggerating.  But Melissa hit it on the head, it's really the lack of perspective that bothers me. 

so what you're saying is that you don't expect someone to run up to you with a 9 mm and shoot you...however it IS expected someone could run up to you, pull out their dlck and start ramming it into your life??!  because that's what really is.

It's a stupid saying people - who cares?  I say potato, you say po-tah-to.  Turtle says "FML", you may say, "oh pooey, i'm upset right now" 

wed2506

See, I think it is used to exaggerate a situation and not really because someone does not have perspective. I am sure Regina is grateful for what she has & knows how fortunate she is but right now she is pissed. Just think using FML is the wrong way to express it. 

oct11bride03

I agree with mel that it's a lack of perspective.

Of course I didn't even know what it meant until maybe a month ago and I can count on one hand the number of times I've seen/heard it used before today. And it still bothers me. Maybe because the times I have seen it used have been for completely annoying reasons but in the grand scheme of life not that big of a deal.

melbride2005

ddelo23:

Andrea0429:

melbride2005:

Oh I didn't say it was a big deal...I just said I didn't like it.  I'm sure overuse has something to do with it, along with the fact that to me it just shows lack of perspective.  Much different to me than "shoot me now"...why, I'm not sure, but it just is.

But again, that's my opinion, and I certainly don't expect everyone to agree with me. 

I agree.  I think for me, "shoot me" is more of a saying because you don't really expect someone to pull out a gun and do it.  When people use FML, it feels like they really think what just happened is the worst thing that could ever happen to anyone.  And you don't know if they really think that or they just feel like exaggerating.  But Melissa hit it on the head, it's really the lack of perspective that bothers me. 

so what you're saying is that you don't expect someone to run up to you with a 9 mm and shoot you...however it IS expected someone could run up to you, pull out their dlck and start ramming it into your life??!  because that's what really is.

It's a stupid saying people - who cares?  I say potato, you say po-tah-to.  Turtle says "FML", you may say, "oh pooey, i'm upset right now" 

you're right, so let's move on!  Molly asked a question and we answered - done. 

LaVitaBella

Meh......it doesn't bother me either. I found the website hilarious in a ironic/sarcastic/whatver kind of way. Of course there are worse things in the world. I think it originated in the context of something happened that is just so ugh you can't get over it. "I came home from college a day early and saw my mom with the mailman...FML.". I know I'm not getting my point across clearly but I hope some know what I mean. Personally, I don't use it because there are people in my life who are so literal they wouldn't get that it's a phrase and would take it to a new level.

wed2506

oct11bride03:

Maybe because the times I have seen it used have been for completely annoying reasons but in the grand scheme of life not that big of a deal. 

I agree. The times I saw it were got a flat tire, FML, baby did not STTN, FML.....things I can relate to and would be annoyed but not say FML.  

Liz051405

LaKi:

N&V0514:

ddelo23:

Perhaps "Stick a Penis in my Life" .

I may have to start using this.

Awesome. 

OMG. LMFAO.

JessiJane777

Kristen81603:

I think it is something that is taken to extreme- I just don't like it- just like I don't like the c word- I just think it takes the meaning to far. 

I agree.  I think it's one thing to say, suks to be you or something of the like, but when I see FML, I think it's something really extreme, like not only did my identity get stolen, the person assumed my identity and is now living in my house and my husband can't tell the difference, so I'm on the street.  Something super crazy like that...Not, FML, I have no ground turkey to make chili... 

Leeba25

molldoll71:

Isn't the term supposed to be just a saying and not meant to be taken literally.  

Please. You're on the motherfuckin nest.

LaVitaBella

Leeba25:

molldoll71:

Isn't the term supposed to be just a saying and not meant to be taken literally.  

Please. You're on the motherfuckin nest.

hahahahahahahahahahahaha

Leeba25

Liz051405:

LaKi:

N&V0514:

ddelo23:

Perhaps "Stick a Penis in my Life" .

I may have to start using this.

Awesome. 

OMG. LMFAO.

Or.... to go with the right format..... SAPIML.

AmyRob04

I find it dramatic (because really? Running outof milk is not FMLF-worthy) and it's not something I use, but it doesn't bother me per se. The work '' and it's derivatives bug me infinitely more!

AmyRob04

LaKi:

N&V0514:

ddelo23:

Perhaps "Stick a Penis in my Life" .

I may have to start using this.

Awesome. 

PA new Nest classic! You saw it here first, folks, lol! 

Shoegal23

I say "I'm going to kill myself" 400 times a week. I don't mean it in the slightest as I'm way to vain to ever do such a thing lol, but it gives a dramatic flava to whatever I'm complaining about at the time, as does FML. I don't really use FML though, but for no specific reason. 

didntelope

Leeba25:

molldoll71:

Isn't the term supposed to be just a saying and not meant to be taken literally.  

Please. You're on the motherfuckin nest.

Word. It doesn't bother me -- not even a little bit. No one is saying a long commute is on par with childhood cancer. Christ. It's a figure of speech, just like saying "I'm starving" when all your fat ass needs is a snack. Lighten up, people.

P.S. I love the c-word. 

ddelo23

didntelope:

Leeba25:

molldoll71:

Isn't the term supposed to be just a saying and not meant to be taken literally.  

Please. You're on the motherfuckin nest.

Word. It doesn't bother me -- not even a little bit. No one is saying a long commute is on par with childhood cancer. Christ. It's a figure of speech, just like saying "I'm starving" when all your fat ass needs is a snack. Lighten up, people.

P.S. I love the c-word. 

Now your'e going to get in trouble, because someone is going to think that you're SPECIFICALLY calling their ass fat!

Couldn't agree more.  But really...I am STARVING - not an exaggeration - i'm literally near death, starving! (and fat)