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STF - wanna start doing this?
On TIP they do STF - Sex Talk Friday
Anyone down?
Re: STF - wanna start doing this?
updated 10.03.12
Ok, I have a question. (TMI warning in advance)
Can you husband cumm while you're on top? Robin has to be on top to finish. I feel like when I'm on top, neither of us really enjoy it as much, but I feel like I need to be on top some, just to change things up. Am I doing something wrong? Do I suck at sex?
Okay cool.
So, lately Guy has been complaining that we don't do it enough. Obviously, with our opposite schedules and our child, it makes it hard to find the time. So last week when I lost my wedding band and he found it, I teasingly told him that I was going to reward him with a blow job, but that I wasn't going to tell him when it was going to happen.
I think that tonight is the night. Hopefully I can blow his mind!
it is veeeery rare that I can make my husband cumm while I'm on top. I think he needs to be able to control the speed (he usually wants to thrust very fast when he's almost there.) so it works better for him if he's on top or to do it from behind.
So, my answer would be no, you do not suck at sex.
I have a feeling that TMI warnings are blanketed with this post
Chris has no problems in any position. I, on the other hand, can only have a orgasm while on top, or doggy. Boww woww.
??... and she only comes when she's on top... ??
If you don't wanna be on top, and he doesn't care either way, I say there's no need to get into a position neither of you care for! /gavel
updated 10.03.12
So I have discovered that I do not like foreplay.
It's true.
If it takes too long, my mind starts to wander and I just lose focus, which inevitably leads to losing the moment and finishing with Chris getting a hand job.
So last night it was getting to that point, and I was just out of the mood and going to let Chris have his fun, so her was fubbing his junk all around, teasing with the tip and everything, so I just told him if you're gonna do it, do it already, so in he went, and although I wasn't exactly ready, the rough penetration was enough to get the job done?
Wham, bam, thank you ma'am! *cracks whip*
updated 10.03.12
I? Have have lost my ... ahem.... taste for blow jobs.
It's a rare treat these days... hell so is sex, but I have to REALLY be in the mood for it.
updated 10.03.12
DD - Ty can sometimes. But typically if I'm on top it's early in the session, and he doesn't want to finish until I'm totally satisfied. So it's kind of a rarity. I have no idea how I do it, but I'm sure you don't suck.
My vent - TTC is freaking tiring, man. With our work schedules we typically only have sex about once a week normally, maybe twice. If it's "go time" I try to get it at least two days in a row (which is all we can do in a row since he works every third day). A few months ago he complained that we had way too much sex because it was "like every day for a week." I looked back at my chart -- it was two days in a row. That was it. Two days, and apparently that was too much. It really hurt my feelings and made me feel like he doesn't want kids as much as I do, which is a total reversal from where we were when we started TTC two years ago.
Congrats to both my TTC buddies, Amberley18 and sb2006 on their beautiful babies!
It helps if DH props himself up with a few pillows a little, so he's half sitting/half laying down. Maybe it's a better angle or something-I don't know.
Congrats to both my TTC buddies, Amberley18 and sb2006 on their beautiful babies!
this. I actually don't like finishing on top, so we usually do this earlier on. Gets things going in the right direction for me, then we move on to a different position.
No matter the reason, no, surely you don't suck at sex.
*nod nod*
kids and breastfeeding and hormones man... it screws with everything. Since Sam I think we're averaging once a month, if that. And now that she's a little older and we have a better set schedule, we're trying to make more of an effort to focus on us, so it's definitely hard..
updated 10.03.12
My thing is, Chris is ALWAYS in the mood, so I never feel like he's one to change his mind... that's all on me.
updated 10.03.12
I have never really had a taste for them, but he loves them so much that I still do it sometimes just as a treat. He claims that I give the best ones he's ever had. So, ya know, how I can deprive him of my skillz?
FTW.
I trump everyone on the board I think... since my BFP- almost YEAR ago-we've only done it like maybe 6 times? I was too tired and nauseous in first tri, was pretty much on pelvic rest for the rest of my pregnancy... and well now I'm too exhausted from being a painful milk machine to think about such things. I feel so bad for him, but I help out where I can.
It is going to hurt for a while. good lube is your friend!
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I'll have to try this. Idk why I haven't thought of this before. I really like sitting on the couch sex.
With us its I want to during the week and he wants to on weekends because of his work schedule. Well when the weekend comes he wants to stay up late and I want to go to bed around 11 or so and then we miss out..what do I have to say "LETS HAVE SEX then you can watch TV"? I am weird about that though and if he turns me down I get embarrassed.
DD: as for on top, he can if I bend over and he really goes fast other wise it has to be a different position.
For me though, its hard for me to on the bottom, weird.
I like WET because it's water-based, but I also have a bottle of Nooner's Just Like Me that I haven't used yet, though I've heard nothing but good things!
updated 10.03.12
Eros or Sylk are great, you can find them on Amazon. I am sure the ones that Nooner sells are great too!
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Sales plug completely aside, STOP using KY. You aren't doing yourself any favors. Just Like Me is water based, pH balanced, so it responds to your body's own moisture - feels totally natural, not sticky and gloppy like KY. I was a FIRM believer in JLM long before I started selling the stuff.
Suprisingly my first time pp was pretty damn good! It's not that I don't want to do it more, there's just no friggin time! Between feedings, laundry and me trying to play catch up on sleep, I just can't make sex happen before I pass out at night.
This part of the reason I recommend b-pics...especially wearing something you already own and will continue to wear. Pretty much any time Jay sees me in a button down or sees me put on certain panties that I wore in my b-pics he says he flashes to them and he can't stop thinking about it. B-Pics for the win!
I am right in the middle of my period and am so farking horny I could hump my desk right now...I won't though, I work for the county who knows where this thing has been
I know Jay doesn't care about period sex but I can never fully relax during it.
I needed this- I am so freaking exhausted by the time I get home, eat dinner and take care of Charlotte that I can barely hang on. I usually fall asleep with her therefore not getting in the mood. I also dont feel attractive these days (picked up 5lbs that are really bugging me) and It doesnt seem to go away. Mark has been hit or miss, sometimes making me feel even more unattractive but he ALWAYS wants to have sex. I feel like a bad wife, but I seriously think he doesnt understand. Hopefully he will get it soon. We average once a week and it is pretty much planned. I will admit its harder with Charlotte and I am too lazy to take her back to her bed some nights so she sleeps with us. bad thing to start, but now need to get her back in her own crib and quit hating getting up at night. I seriously require extra stimulation to get there and HATE being too wet which isnt normal. I think I need to just get a little drunk and let myself go to get back in the swing of things and quit thinking about it too much.
I am going to back this up, and not just because I heart Nooner. Just Like Me is the best lube I've ever used. WAY better than KY or anything I've found in an adult store. And? It comes in watermelon. LOL