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BIL..kinda long, sorry!

So my MIL is finally catching on to how much my BIL drinks. His girlfriend ( Sarah ) called me last night and told me about an email my mil sent her asking why hes drinking sooo much and going to work hung over and I'm so glad shes finally seeing it. So sarah was talking to me and trying to bash my mil for it ( shes drinks just as much as him and shes probably the reason why he drinks so much ) and I just listened, didn't really say anything. I may not like my mil, but I respect her as an adult and as my husbands mother, but I think she is perfectly in line to ask her these questions. He's gotten soo bad and she just wants to find out why he's drinking and help him. It's not like its just beer either, he can go through the BIG bottles of captain morgan by himself in 2 work days plus a half a case of beer...I'm just glad some one else is noticing how bad its getting too...so thats an update on him.

Oh I said that Sarah is the reason he drinks so much because shes abusive and naggy, always complaining about this and that, she once yelled at him for 2 hours because he ate his dinner too slow.... She's the type of girl who only wants to be married and have kids, shes not the type that says i love you and want to be with you for the rest of my life, but i want to have kids now! type of thing. I understand where shes coming from to a certain point ( shes in her 30's ) but she takes it way too far. lol, sorry, this was just supposed to be an update and I rambled it into a friggin book!

Re: BIL..kinda long, sorry!

  • Well it's nice the MIL is starting to see BIL actions.  Hopefully you can let the rest of the family deal with the drama and just concentrate on your new marriage and new life (if that's what you want).
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  • Yea, I'm staying out of it from now on. We finally had our last straw with him last night and my husband isn't allowing him over anymore. Sweetness. He really does need help, but like you always hear, the first step is him admitting he has a problem and until then, no one can help
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