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Just broke things off with my bf....ugh.
So, I gave it the good old college try. I dated him for 2 months and while I liked him, I just didn't see myself falling in love with him and this turning into more than it was. I wanted to feel more for him, but I didn't. He's a great guy who was so nice to me and really liked me. We had a fun time every time we hung out, but I just.........wanted more. I just want someone who I feel the major butterflies and "can't wait to see him" feeling....
We were supposed to hang out tonight, but i just couldn't bear the thought of him driving 45 minutes all ready to see me and me just dropping this on him, so I called him. I apologized for the low move of a phonecall and I said "you deserve me to talk to you about this face to face, but I just couldn't really figure out how to do that without giving you the wrong impression first...." and he actually thanked me. He was really understanding and actually, just proved to me more how much of a great guy he is and how any girl would be lucky to have him. I just wish I felt more for him....overall, it really went the best it could have, but I still feel badly that I had to do it....
Anyway, I know some of you girls have been through this too.....I've never really have been on this side of it before. Tell me I'll feel less guilty and better about it soon!?!?
-T
Re: Just broke things off with my bf....ugh.
You absolutely will, because of 2 reasons: 1) You handled it an a very straightforward and mature way, and 2) He really is a good guy and understood everything.
It sucks to have to start all over again, I know. No real words of wisdom, but I commend you for taking the high road and doing it right.
(((hugs)))