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I have exciting news too! (long, sorry!)
Nope, not pregnant, hehe.
By the end of next month, I will be a full time Blogger, Healthy Recipe Freelancer, Woman on a Mission to Help People Eat Healthier....
Yup, that's right, I
gave my notice the other day and I couldn't be more scared and excited
This decision has been in the making for a very long time. For quite a while I've known that the type of work I do doesn't really do anything for me, and that I'm much more motivated and happy about the "hobby" turned "side job" that I have with developing healthy recipes and communicating with people about healthy eating.
At first MH and I figured I'd leave when we had a baby. Then, I figured, why not just do it when I get pregnant? That would give me some time to really focus on this kind of work and get something off the ground before having a baby.
This is the first time I'm saying anything about this on this board, but here goes: we're struggling with infertility (I don't really feel like getting into much more detail than that.)
Since we're not able to get pregnant right now I've done a lot of soul searching and talking to other "professional bloggers" turned cookbook authors, healthy cooking teachers, event planners, etc. And they've really inspired me and given me the confidence that I could do that too.
Life is too short. I've always believed that everything happens for a reason. I feel it's quite possible that my body hasn't responded yet because it's truly not my time, because I'm supposed to do something else first. Find a way to get rid of the stress and unhappiness and do something that brings me joy and balance. And I keep reminding myself that it's a blessing and a sign that I have this opportunity, financially speaking. Many people do not, and even those who do and don't take it, regret it later in life.
Besides blogging and freelancing, I know there is something else out there for me. I've toyed with writing a book, starting some kind of healthy meal planning service or cooking classes, getting certified as a hollistic health & wellness coach, etc. I hope that once I really have time to think about it and explore the options, it will become clear to me.
I'm
not leaving immediately, I am staying on till March 23. I figured that
was a good amount of time to finish up my work here and not leave people
hanging. Also, I'm going to Vegas that weekend, so I figured it would
be perfect timing to leave and not come back
Re: I have exciting news too! (long, sorry!)
That is very exciting! I wish you the best of luck in your upcoming journeys.
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August 2012: Clomid 50mg + TI=bfn, switched RE September 2012: Redo HSG-blockage in right tube confirmed November 2012: Clomid 25mg, Bravelle + Trigger + IUI= ectopic pregnancy December 2012: emergency laparoscopy and D&C, removed right tube January 2013: Clomid 25mg, Bravelle, Trigger+IUI
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This line really spoke to me. I hope you find find your joy and balance!!
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Congratulations!
I admire people who recognize their passions, and try turning it into a way to make a living.
You're right - life is too short! If it doesn't work out, you can ALWAYS jump back into the 9 to 5.
Congratulations! That is wonderful that you will be able to pursue your passion. I'm sure you will do really well. Sorry to hear about your IF struggles but I think you have a very good outlook on it all.
I can't wait to try your slow cooker recipes from the Eating Well Magazine. I need to get them on my menu soon!
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Wow Cara! Congrats! I really do think you are such an inspiring blogger with so many great healthy recipe ideas, so I know you'll be great at this.
On a side note, I'm very sorry about the IF issues.
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That is incredible Cara! So happy for you!
I'm very sorry to hear about your infertility issues, but I think you are making the right decision.
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I'm so sorry to hear of your IF struggles. It is truly a hellish path to have to walk, one that no one deserves to have to go down and those who don't will never understand. I wish you the best of luck in any treatments you may be seeking or decisions you need to make. It is all so incredibly difficult.
Best of luck in your new career path. I recently switched careers and the overall improvement in my quality of life is truly remarkable. Life is too short to spend so much time doing something you don't truly love.
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Congratulations. This is an amazing move, personally and professionally and I'm sure you'll have much success.
I'm very sorry to hear that you've been battling IF. After 3 long years, 4 rounds of IVF and multiple lost babies, I'm very sensitive to this line of thinking. It's not far off of "relax and it will happen." Infertility is a medical condition and I think these statements undermine the physical and emotional hardships. I think it's wonderful that you're embracing such a positive attitude, but these types of statements are hurtful as they suggest that aside from fertility treatments, fertility is within our control.
I'm so very sorry to hear what you've gone through and agree with Madelyn that no one should have to bear this burden. And I'm deeply sorry that what I said might be insensitive to some. Please forgive me as I'm newer to this and only just beginning to take part in the IF community.
For me personally, I am not ruling it out that my miserableness at my job and the nagging notion that I am supposed to be doing something else with my life could be having an effect on my fertility. I've felt unhappy for a very long time, but it wasn't until we started TTC and found out what we were dealing with that I felt a strong push to make this move. I don't expect that it's going to heal me overnight, of course not. But it's a change I need to make for my well-being and sense of purpose in this world.
Ditto! I'm in sheer awe over your decision, and I applaud you for pursuing your goals. 2012 is going to be one fantastic year of change for you!!!
Ditto all of this.
I wish you the best of luck in both your personal and professional journeys!
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