I had another date last night. It was a blind date. M friend requested me on FB, we have several mutual friends and I checked in with two of them before going out with him to make sure they thought he was a stand up guy (they did).
We went to dinner and had a good time. He's really funny and he's a single dad. I could tell that he really loves his son. He owns his own business and also owns his own house so he's successful and seems very driven. I definitely got the vibe that he was into me because he asked about a second date before the end of this date.
Problem is, I'm just not attracted to him like that. I can't picture kissing him and I didn't feel "that" connection. Sometimes I wonder if I'll ever feel it. It always seems like I go on these dates and they want to see me again, but I don't feel the same (that isn't meant to sound braggy just more of a statement of facts).
It's fine anyways because I need to keep focusing on my studies, but the more I date the more picky it seems like I get. No real point to this post, I am just feeling instrospective on a Monday morning, it seems.
Re: Just Call Me the One Date Wonder!
You and me both!
However; my date from last night was the opposite...I felt something but it was pretty clearly when we said goodbye that he didn't. It sucks as I built up anticipation in my head.
Agh...dating is frustrating!
This exactly! I think for the right one, it'll be worth all the bad ones
That makes 3 of us. Wouldnt let it bother you Achase...probably more common than you realize. 90% or more of the 1st dates I have been on never made it to a 2nd.