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Need some good Vibes, T's & P's please...

Ya'll have been such a great support system since Corey's passing.  I don't know how I would have gotten through all of this without you all. 

I need your good vibes, thoughts, prayers, whatever you can think of as I have made a HUGE decision.  

I am putting "our" house on the market and looking to move into something of my own.   It's time for me to move forward and still being in "our" house is just not helping me do that right now.  This is a HUGE leap of faith for me and I am scared Sh!tless right now.  So anything you can send my way would be appreciated.

I have NOT told my parents what I am doing, so if you are my Facebook friend, please, please, please, don't say anything!!   I love them dearly, but I am highly influenced by wanting/needing their approval and I know how my mother thinks.   She thinks I should just "make it my own", etc.  Not make a "rash" decision.  But what she doesn't understand is how hard it is for me.    So it's just easier for me to make that decision, get it rolling and then tell them what I am doing; not asking them what to do.    (Therapy is a GREAT thing!).  I do have the guidance of my baby brother and the Man friend, so I am doing pretty good there.  

Many thanks....

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Re: Need some good Vibes, T's & P's please...

  • ((Hugs))  You are doing what is best for you!
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  • You've got it.  {{{Hugs}}}
  • You've been contemplating this & trying to make the home your own for well over a year now.  It's hardly a rash decision.  Good luck! 
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  • I think this is the right MOVE. :)
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  • I believe you are making the right decision.  You need to do what is best for you.  Good luck with your search and may T&P's for you through this hard time.
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  • imagehalfpintaggie:
    You've been contemplating this & trying to make the home your own for well over a year now.  It's hardly a rash decision.  Good luck! 

    I agree.  You've put a lot of thought into this.  You know what's best for you.  Your mother has not walked in your shoes.  Hugs and prayers for a quick sale.

  • I know this has been a very difficult decision for you to make, and I think you are doing the right thing. More importantly, you know that it is the right thing for you. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

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  • Best of luck with the sale!
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  • imagebpaullo:

    imagehalfpintaggie:
    You've been contemplating this & trying to make the home your own for well over a year now.  It's hardly a rash decision.  Good luck! 

    I agree.  You've put a lot of thought into this.  You know what's best for you.  Your mother has not walked in your shoes.  Hugs and prayers for a quick sale.

    I agree with this.  I will be praying for you my friend!!!

  • imagebpaullo:

    imagehalfpintaggie:
    You've been contemplating this & trying to make the home your own for well over a year now.  It's hardly a rash decision.  Good luck! 

    I agree.  You've put a lot of thought into this.  You know what's best for you.  Your mother has not walked in your shoes.  Hugs and prayers for a quick sale.

    Ditto.  Lots of prayers for you as you go through this.  You have to do what is good for you, end of story.  

    ~*~Jenn~*~
  • imagebpaullo:

    imagehalfpintaggie:
    You've been contemplating this & trying to make the home your own for well over a year now.  It's hardly a rash decision.  Good luck! 

    I agree.  You've put a lot of thought into this.  You know what's best for you.  Your mother has not walked in your shoes.  Hugs and prayers for a quick sale.

    All of this.  You can do this. 

     

  • Good luck!  I think HP said it well - this isn't a hasty decision.
  • You have to do what is best for you.  Hugs & prayers to you in this journey.  And lots of house selling dust!!
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  • To thine own self be true. Do what you have to do for you. Big hugs, Lex! You can do it.
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  • imageSigmundsGirl:
    I know this has been a very difficult decision for you to make, and I think you are doing the right thing. More importantly, you know that it is the right thing for you. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
    This...good luck Lexie.  Will keep you in my T&Ps.
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  • Lots of T&P for you. I think you're making the right decision, even though it's hard to do. I hope it sells quickly!
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  • Hugs Lexi.  I definitely think you haven't made a rash decision.  This is something you've been contemplating for the last year.  Good luck to you!
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  • imagebpaullo:

    imagehalfpintaggie:
    You've been contemplating this & trying to make the home your own for well over a year now.  It's hardly a rash decision.  Good luck! 

    I agree.  You've put a lot of thought into this.  You know what's best for you.  Your mother has not walked in your shoes.  Hugs and prayers for a quick sale.

    I agree.

    -Clare
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  • Good luck! Thinking of you.
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  • Sending you good thoughts, Lexie! Sounds like this is just another step in the right direction for you....though it surely isn't easy! HUGS!
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  • prayers on new beginnings!

    xoxo

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