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the Art of Making a Baby blog ~ updated
Re: the Art of Making a Baby blog ~ updated
interesting... i'm glad to see she didn't feel bedsharing cured the reflux- b/c that is the first thing I was thinking- that it WASN'T reflux if sharing a bed cured it.
I have so many snarky things to say, but I am trying not to be a "mean girl" anymore
I am curious if the baby was making choking, gurggling sounds how did sleeping with them fix it?
out of her mind for sure. I had to LOL that she was so freaked about giving gripe water... b/c it would disrupt the flora and make her get infections... OH LORD.
Became a Mrs. on 4/29/06 and a Mommy on 12/5/08
I was seriously cackling out loud when I read this part!
I feel like she's going to make herself out to be a martyr with this baby.
I don't get if it was reflux then how come bed sharing cured it?? So basically she is going to nurse and blog?
exactly. you know how many women on her acted like their kid was the second coming of Christ and obsessed over every detail. Its the nature of first time motherhood and we all did it on some level. Some still haven't gotten past it. But crucify her since it makes everyone feel better.
I simply don't get the attraction. We all were nervous nellies, obsessive first time parents once upon a time.
totally absolutely 100% ditto to Amy and Kelly. How quickly everyone forgets. I have read my fair share of posts here that have been the exact same or more neurotic, panicked or obsessive as hers. What's with all the superiority 'Tude?
Cara, don't you know if you choose to BF your child but complain about having sore boobs and being tired from lack of sleep due to BF, the first week of your first child's life, it means you can't possibly handle motherhood. So, we are just hearing from all the obviously wonderful mothers here who popped their babies out and never had any issues.
BFP #2: 11/16/11: M/C at 7 weeks
BFP #3: 03/24/12: C/P 03/28/12
BFP #4: 04/26/12: please be our baby
U know.. this girl doesnt get on my nerves with her making it all about her.. cause thats how she feels.. before the baby is here.... thats fine with me.
And she is a new mother..most of us have been there.. new mom, not knowing what to expect.. and then BAM youre hit with a crying baby , no sleep, trying to recover...and NO CLUE what to do... and your head filled with ideas of how you want to raise your child... that are possibly on the obsessive side...
She is learning.. just like the rest of us.. why is it getting under everyones skin?
yes the ones who knew how they were going to raise that child through to adulthood once they were in their second trimester and they were going to do the best job possible. There are alot of haters lately I agree with you.
i'm with Amy, Kelly, Cara and Rachael on this one.
I think there's a huge difference b/w coming on here to vent, to ask for help, or to look for commiseration on new mom tribulations, and this blog girl who even now in her desperation, has no humility whatsoever.