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am i the only one who did not have their kid make their mom/mil a v-day present?

i didn't even have alexa make my husband a present (or buy anything from her for him..or didn't even have her make him a card or buy one)....yet my mom is making me feel bad for not having alexa "give her anything" for valentines day...i did actually buy a card from alexa, for my mom..but i guess that wasn't good enough...im so annoyed...i mean i guess i do feel bad, now that she brought it to my attention, but i am just not a crafty person, and honestly, didn't think to do anything....am i bad person for that?  oy, the guilt....

p.s  i don't recall us ever being the "valentine celebrating family" in the past

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Re: am i the only one who did not have their kid make their mom/mil a v-day present?

  • we did nothing- nothing for me, nothing for Mike, nothing for grandmas'- I did make two small things for teachers and our class favors, but other then that- nothing! 
    Kristen(formerly kristen8/16/03, but the nest stinks and I had to change my name)Wife to Mike, Mommy to Kieran 7/25/06 and Michael 7/14/10
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  • Nope, not a thing. 
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  • Im not crafty. I went to Target and bought cards and Abby semi-signed them. If Abby wants to do arts and crafts, she does them in school.  
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  • nope- nothing here for the grandparents.  If V-day was on a Sunday we'd probably have them draw pictures/cards... b/c we have dinner wtih them most sundays... but otherwise- it's not a special day to my parents - they are like DH and me -- not into the hallmark holidays.
    I used to be Goldie_locks_5 but the new nest is so screwed up that I was forced to start over.
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  • We didn't do anything.  I'm not that crafty either, and when I mentioned that Maya could draw a picture and make a card for her grandmothers, she didn't feel like it.  I didn't push it. 
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  • I uploaded a few pics to the Walmart website & made a few photo cards.  Then I got some cheap frames when I went to pickup the cards.... I spent about $2 each in total & both my mil & mom and mh loved them.  That was their gift/card.  You don't have to go crazy or be so creative... 
  • just a card from him, signed by me. anthony and i dont really go nuts over valentines day so it didnt even occur to me to go out of my way. and fwiw, i AM very crafty and still did nothing.
  • DD came home & asked if she could make my dad & stepmom a heart & decorate with stickers so she did. Had she not asked, I would not have done anything.
  • Just cards here. Nothing special. It's also my birthday so we just had both sets of grandparents here for cake and he gave them their Valentine cards. Otherwise nothing. 
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  • My mom is huge on cards so I sent one to her from the kids.  Nothing for my MIL or Nick though.
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  • I didn't do anything for my mom or MIL. The only thing I did was make the little heart crayons and bag them up for their friends.
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  • Both families are in FL on vacation so no I didn't. They all sent my kids stuff but seriously it's kind of out of hand. Like $50 checks!!!! I was like WHAT!!??? My kids made valentines @5 pm because my son asked and asked for cupcakes that was about all I had in me I don't get the fuss
  • we made V day placemats on 11x17 oak tag and ordered a pizza. All good
  • never even croiased my mind 
  • E & B gave me cards but I was honestly surprised and I didn't do anything- I didn't tell E it was V-day, he has no clue what it is/means, and I don't care. It's nothing against V-Day. I'm just also not a crafty person, am not big into any holidays and I know B certainly doesn't care. Other people can do whatever they want but I'm not making any of these holidays into a big deal. I have a friend who's started a tradition of basically giving and getting gifts for her kids/parents/husband, etc for EVERYTHING. Halloween- gifts. V-day- more gifts, St Patricks- gift again, Easter- even more. It's way overkill for ME. That's a lot of gift responsibility, yo.

  • i had the kids give my mom a little box of chocolate on superbowl sunday when we saw them just to avoid the guilt trip she would lay on me if i didnt get her anything, not because me or the kids wanted to give her something.

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