Starting Over
"You don't get to be all puke-face about your kid shooting your undead baby daddy when all you had to do was KEEP HIM IN THE FLUCKING HOUSE, LORI!" - doctorwho
Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Just heard from the STBXH
Apparently he FINALLY made the time to go file the notice of issue; now we just need to wait another four months (!) for finalization. Which means that a mere 10 months after we signed our paperwork and he said he was headed to the courthouse to file, we should be divorced.
Not sure why it took so long for this to happen, but I'm feeling this very weird mixture of relief, annoyance, and sadness right now. Stupid emotions. 
"You don't get to be all puke-face about your kid shooting your undead baby daddy when all you had to do was KEEP HIM IN THE FLUCKING HOUSE, LORI!" - doctorwho
Re: Just heard from the STBXH
It sounds like your timeline was similar to mine, taking way longer than seemed necessary just to have it done. I don't recall your backstory right now...but if you're anything like me, the crazy rollercoaster of anxiety/trepidation/sadness will even out and once it's over, it's just a relief. Hang in there!