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It's THE baby shower day today - UPDATE -

All guests are coming from OOT.

 All guests have to drive the same distance basically. Around 1.5 hours.

We're having lunch at a Vietnamese place and they (shower people) are asking $12 for the food. Then it's paying activities again. I am not even sure we (the guests) will go to their house because the mom-to-be banned permanently on of the guests from entering her home. 

I seriously hope they'll allow the 10 of us to at least have a seat at their place and have a glass of orange juice, for FREE. 

XH should be there too. 

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Re: It's THE baby shower day today - UPDATE -

  • Huh? No offense, but WTF kind of shower is that? You have to pay for your own meal? Intersesting.....
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    Huh? No offense, but WTF kind of shower is that? You have to pay for your own meal? Intersesting.....

    This whole thing seems very WEIRD to me. Wait, do you have to pay for your own activities too???

    Please explain

  • Ugh good luck.  Honestly I would have RSVP'd no.  I hope you do ok.  ((hugs))
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  • Why the F are you going, girl!?!?
  • I have a few questions.

    1. Did you post details about this at some point? I'm intrigued. 

    2. Why would someone go to a shower for a person who banned them from her home. 

    She's crafty - and she's just my type.
  • I just googled and found the info. I think it'll be fun - strictly because these people sound crazy. I remember now about the private registry. LOL Wish Brad and Angelina well from all of us here at The Nest.
    She's crafty - and she's just my type.
  • Actually it was a lot of fun!

    1. XH wasn't there and since it was the 1st time I was seeing friends we had in common since the divorce process started, they had a lot of compliments for me and were genuinely caring about me. 

    2. I won all the games. I managed to figure out all the baby food flavors. I got a ton of prizes.

    3. The mom-to-be bought top of the line ice-cream treats for everyone.

    4. We then went to her house and had fun watching little kids. We didn't do the paying activities.

    5. One of the women's husband works where I want to be transfered so I did some work connections!!! He is also friend with a guy in HR at my company HQ, who also happens to be from my country. He is going to help me get over there. After what just happened at my job on Thursday, this is great!

    6. I forgot the baby gifts, oops. I'll mail them on Monday.

    All in all, it was a 110% win for me! I love this outcome. 

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  • Awesome Land!  I'm so happy you ignored us and went!  Good for you to put yourself out there. Great about the work contact too. I'm so happy for you!
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  • Its extraordinarily tacky to have guests pay at the shower. WTF.

    I would have RSVP-ed no. Messed up. 

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  • Uh. I don't think you need to go, lol.

    Edit: oops, didn't see the update. Glad you won all the prizes!

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  • I'm so glad things you ended up enjoying yourself!
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  • Glad it went well after all!

    I've only had to pay for my meal at a baby shower when we went out to dinner for a CW's shower.

  • awesome that it worked out for you, cause I totally woulda said no to the shower. How perfect though! I'm sure it was a great self esteem boost to see your friends and know they're in your corner, or at least supportive.
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