Trouble in Paradise
cutesmile86
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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
moving on
My ex-fiance and I just ended our relationship. Should I clarify to him what went wrong from my point of view or should I just move on? I just want to move on with my life but I wouldn't want things to stay in bad terms. I really do appreciate him as a person but it just wasn't working. On the other hand, if I try to make him understand what went wrong from my point of view, I may make the break up more complicated than it needs to be for both of us. Should I just let him think whatever he wants then? Also he wants me to mail the engagement ring. I'm not sure if its the best idea to send it via mail. Thanks for any advice you can give me 
Re: moving on
Who called off the engagement?
If you do mail the ring, make sure you insure the hell out of it and require a return receipt. That way he can't play any funny "it got lost in the mail, you owe me $X000 now" games.
I say just be done with it. You don't need to explain yourself.
You have nothing to explain. It was a break-up because it wasn't working. End of story. It doesn't matter what he thinks about it or you. Just let it be. In fact, trying to explain yourself will just make it more complicated and frustrating. Break ups happen to good people.
Mail the ring, registered and with insurance. Don't use it as an excuse to see him again.