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"we beat it out of her"

i am traveling for work and bumped into a guy at the airport that i dont know well but he works for the same comapny so we had coffee during the long layover in london. we got to talking about pets and he was telling me about his rescued dog. fantastic, i thought! it's a herding breed mix and when the first brought her home she was herding the kids a bit. i said "oh no! i do hear that is common though". he said "oh dont worry, we beat it out of her in just a few days." ugh. i was literally speechless! he then went on to talk about how sensitive she is and is terrified of other dogs. sigh.
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  • OMG.  Indifferent  That's horrible. 

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  • Wow.  I'm not surprise you had to pick your jaw up off the floor, that's crazy talk. 

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  • What do you even say to that? I always get tongue tied and can't come up with a good repsonse besides "You A$$HOLE, stop beating your dog!"  Which I don't end up saying.
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  • I hate that herding breeds are also known to be geniuses.  People hear "smartest breed of dog" and just get one, without realizing what comes along with it.  Yes, Cal picks up tricks in minutes, and he can unstuff a Kong almost instantly, but this also means he has to keep his genius brain busy all day or he gets manipulative and stir crazy.  I hate when people get dogs they don't understand and instead of trying to understand, they act like your asshoIe co-worker :(
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    What do you even say to that? I always get tongue tied and can't come up with a good repsonse besides "You A$$HOLE, stop beating your dog!"  Which I don't end up saying.

    i so wanted to say at least something, but he is a bit high up the food chain. even if not, i wa sos hocked that i am not sure i could have mustered an answer anyway!

     

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  • Indifferent poor dog.
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    Indifferent poor dog.

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  • Well gee, no wonder she's sensitive and terrified of other dogs!

    Is there anyway he was just joking around by any chance? It's a horrible joke, but still! 

  • Sable herds the cats sometimes. I had no idea "beating" it out of her was the way to go. Here I thought NILIF, positive reinforcement, and patience was the way to deal with it.  

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  • That's awful.

    I'm really hopeful he did not mean it literally. 

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    Well gee, no wonder she's sensitive and terrified of other dogs!

    Is there anyway he was just joking around by any chance? It's a horrible joke, but still! 

    definitely not joking. he is not american so perhaps more accepted where he grew up? (not to say there arent areas in the states that have different cultural norms...) 

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  • Maybe he was using the term colloquially? Like he really meant, "Oh, we trained it out of her," but instead he used the word "beat," but didn't literally mean BEAT.
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  • I don't think I could have hidden the look of horror on my face if someone ever told me they "beat" something out of their dog. No words would be necessary; my judgement would be all over my face. Tongue Tied
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  • "Maybe he was using the term colloquially? Like he really meant, "Oh, we trained it out of her," but instead he used the word "beat," but didn't literally mean BEAT."

    Agreed. I think that might be an over-reaction. I'm pretty sure I've used that expression before and I've never come close to beating my dogs, but instead referring to beating the idea into them ie lots of training and repetition! I highly doubt if someone truly beat their dog they'd casually share it with you.

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