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I am so angry at my sperm donor bio dad. I don't know if I vented at Christmas time but apparantly I wasn't allowed to go to Christmas because his evil b!tch of a wife said if I was there she wouldn't be (which I think most people would've preferred me:)) So my grandpa had to call me and tell me why I wasn't invited. Well I am not going to put up with this. I don't want him in my life (sperm donor) but I'll be damned if he is going to take the rest of the family away from me or my son. THey have always been good to me and actually treat me like family. SO I have been trying to call him for almost a month now and he will not answer or return my calls....what a mothereffin coward. And it's not like I am all bitchy on my messages. I just say hey it's me give me a call type thing. I am sure he doesn't even realize my grandpa called me to tell me that so he probably doesn't know what is up. I have never done anything to him and it makes me so mad that he is treating me like crap cause he couldn't wrap up his pecker when he was a teenager!!
Re: Pisssed....a vent
love is for every her, love is for every him, love is for everyone
This.
It took me a long time to realize this, and although it sometimes still sucks to not have a dad or a grandpa for my kids, it is what it is, and we are WAY better off.
If you ever want to talk about it, I would be more than happy to talk with you. My bio dad hasn't spoken to me in about 11 years now, it went down pretty similar to this, and I made several attempts to reconcile before finally realizing that it just really isn't worth it.