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Do pull-ups make a difference?

DD's daycare sheet yesterday said she needed pull-ups so I asked the teacher this morning if DD was showing more interest in trying to sit on the potty and all that and she said yes and no depended on the day which at home it depends too if she wants to try or not and we don't push it much especially given our recent move and school change and all. So the teacher recommended pull-ups instead of diapers, but said obviously it was up to me.

Do pull-ups make any difference in them wanting to sit on the potty/potty train? I know DD already knows when she pees/poops as she says I'm peeing/pooping and she knows when she is wet so I'm sure- do the pullups just accentuate that or what...

I can't decide if I should buy some or not.

Re: Do pull-ups make a difference?

  • Pullups are just expensive diapers, IMHO.

    Do you think that the diaper hurdle is what is holding her back from going on the potty when she has to?

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  • In my experience, pull up is a waste of money. 

    If she's showing interest and knows when she's going, it may be time to potty train.  I understand you may want to wait a bit b/c she's had some major adjustments lately, and honestly I would do the same.

    That being said- in my experience when you potty train, the best approach is to go all out or nothing.  So put in panties during the day and don't go back except at night.  First thing in the morning you put on the underwear and don't ever put her diaper or a pull up back on.  If she's truly ready, this should only take you a weekend.    

    ETA: a lot of the daycare centers like to drag out potty training and insist on using pullups, but they shouldn't be necessary.

  • imageandrealynn0707:

    Pullups are just expensive diapers, IMHO.

    I agree with this....

  • Im guessing why they want pull ups is when she shows interest they can easily get her on the potty instead of laying down getting the diaper off going to the potty, etc.  it is for ease and speed and getting into the habit of pulling something down adn back up even if they arent trained yet.  I can see how it would be useful for DC.
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  • The advantage of pull ups is she can pull them down herself if she needs to go to the bathroom.  But, frankly, if she's able to determine she needs to potty and go do it herself, she's ready for regular underpants.
  • Have you tried putting her in underwear?  A few months ago DS's school told us to put him in underwear and see how he did.  We tried it over a weekend and he never had an accident so, luckily, we just went straight to underwear except at night.  You might try underwear over the weekend just to see how it goes - they sell plastic covers that you can put over underwear to help contain any accidents (while still allowing her to feel plenty wet, etc).  GL!
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  • imagewhitdog23:
    Have you tried putting her in underwear?  A few months ago DS's school told us to put him in underwear and see how he did.  We tried it over a weekend and he never had an accident so, luckily, we just went straight to underwear except at night.  You might try underwear over the weekend just to see how it goes - they sell plastic covers that you can put over underwear to help contain any accidents (while still allowing her to feel plenty wet, etc).  GL!

    I agree with this. We did something similar and had good results.

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  • We use them for overnight since she still has about 1 night a week that she wakes up wet. It's just easier for her to go to the bathroom herself if she wakes up and has to.

    As far as during the day, we never used them when she was PTing. They feel the same as a diaper and keep them dry like a diaper, so there's no benefit to using them over diapers. 

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  • imageBlueLikeJazz:

    **wanders into post thinking it was about this kind of pull-up**

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    Those kind of pull-ups might make a difference!  :)

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  • agree with pps that they are just expensive diapers.  I think it actually hurt DD's potty-training because it trained her that with these great things you pull up, you pee in them.  So I think she tried that in the underwear quite a bit as well.  Which is why I'm keeping DS in diapers until he is really ready to go straight to underwear.  They are more convenient for the teachers but are not a necessity by any means.


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  • imageandrealynn0707:

    Pullups are just expensive diapers, IMHO.

    Do you think that the diaper hurdle is what is holding her back from going on the potty when she has to?

     This.  Pullups are great for naps and nights once ou go no diapers, but that's about all they are good for...  Well and as a backup to keep in the car in case of a potty accident when out and about.  If she's ready to PT then just put her in underwear and never put diapers on again.  There might be some messes initially, but it doesn't last long.  Plastic pants and thick training pants help minimize the messes.  Pull ups IMO drag out PTing and make it more difficult or the kid to grasp the concept. 

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  • Sounds like she's definitely ready for panties :)  Like everyone else said, use pull-ups for naps, night and longer car trips.
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  • imageSunflower22:

    We use them for overnight since she still has about 1 night a week that she wakes up wet. It's just easier for her to go to the bathroom herself if she wakes up and has to.

    As far as during the day, we never used them when she was PTing. They feel the same as a diaper and keep them dry like a diaper, so there's no benefit to using them over diapers. 

    ditto all of this.  Both kids wear pull-ups at night, DD is an extremely deep sleeper and just doesn't wake up to go potty and DS is just semi-potty trained so I don't fully trust him yet, but during the day I went straight to underwear.

  • I have some boys pull-ups you can have if you want to try them out on G.  Smile
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  • I would make a really big, exciting "big girl" trip to the store and get her involved on which panties she wants to buy.  Talk all about them and be ridiculously excited, then consider renting "Potty Power" or whatever from Netflix and have her watch it once.  I'm telling you, the kid will be potty trained in two days.

    The key is just keeping everything super fun and not criticizing when she has an accident.  I would ask DS if he was a baby or a big kid (following the movie) and he'd scream "BIG KID!!" and he was potty trained almost instantly.  We waited (like you) until he was good and ready, which it sounds like she is.

    Pull-ups are great for nap/night time.  After you introduce big girl panties, I wouldn't use diapers anymore.  "Diapers are for babies."  Pull-ups can still be for "big kids" like her.  HTH! 

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