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Not Sure Whether to Be Flattered Or...
F and his XW got into an argument while exchanging their DD and during their argument she mentioned that she knew that he was with me because I probably treat him just like his mother treats his father (basically, cooking, cleaning, etc.) She apparently ended it by saying that he was being opportunistic dating me but she can't blame him because she'd want to date me too.
I'm not sure whether to be flattered or weirded out.
Re: Not Sure Whether to Be Flattered Or...
She was being rude.
I do cook regularly. I cooked almost everyday for myself before we started dating, and I have friends over for dinner parties all the time and bring food to my parents and my workmates. So yes, I cook for him, but that's not anything different than what I would do for anyone else.
I don't clean for him.
I am far more domestic than her from what I've heard, so that may be what she is alluding to generally.