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please please please be careful on the stairs :(

I fell down the stairs while holding Julia yesterday. I didn't drop her, but she was crying really hard for about 30 minutes afterwards and I just felt like something wasn't right. I called the pediatrician after-hours line, but decided to go ahead and head in to the ER before even hearing back from the on-call doctor. She settled down on the car ride there, which made me feel better, but she got really upset again when I touched her knee when we were in the waiting room. That worried me, but I was hoping it was just bruised or something. Then when she was being examined, she wouldn't put weight on her left leg. I knew at that point something was wrong. The x-rays confirmed that she had a fractured femur. They put a temporary splint on her, and she'll go sometime this week for the hard cast. I can't believe I fell and hurt my baby...but she doesn't stay unhappy for long! Look at that smile!

I have some bumps and bruises on my back and my neck is really sore today, but I am fine. I'm just so thankful that I was able to hold on to her, and that her injury is to her leg and not her head!

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  • I'm glad she didn't hit her head!  That's so scary.  Glad you're ok too.  
  • ugh- that is horrible - for both of you!

    I fell on the stairs once carrying Griffin as an infant... scared the crap out of me - he was totally fine... I went down on my back and butt and was bruised up a lot, like you... ever sicne then i've been such a freak about the stairs.

    she'll never remember it - so don't beat yourself up over it!

    I used to be Goldie_locks_5 but the new nest is so screwed up that I was forced to start over.
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  • Poor you and poor Julia! I'm glad she's OK. ((HUGS))
  • That's definitely scary...glad you're both ok...she'll be back to normal in no time.
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  • Poor baby, hope she heals quickly!  I feel once holding Ash as an infant and grazed her head against the wall on the way down, I was so fraeked out and very lucky neither of us got hurt.

    Mommy to Olivia 06.07.06 & Tyler 04.08.09 & Ashley 01.05.11
  • My husband  fell down the stairs holding Ava when she was 3 months old and she broke too :(

    His ego was horribly damaged, and she healed in a cast in 4 weeks. 

    The best advice we got (from multiple parents who also broke their kids) was that the trauma is all yours, not theirs! 

    hugs - it feels terrible!

  • Oh my goodness!!  Glad you are both ok and there were no major injuries.  How scary!
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    ugh- that is horrible - for both of you!

    I fell on the stairs once carrying Griffin as an infant... scared the crap out of me - he was totally fine... I went down on my back and butt and was bruised up a lot, like you... ever sicne then i've been such a freak about the stairs.

    she'll never remember it - so don't beat yourself up over it!

    my dh slipped with cole when he was like a month old. he caught him but he is petrified to carry him on the stairs (so blind uncoordinated me does it) and belle was in our room when it happened and will tell anyone that listens that daddy dropped cole (he caught him thankfully)

    its scary and i am glad everyone is relatively ok

  • oh no!  Hugs that she gets well soon, she is adorable!!  And hugs to you!  I'm always worried about this since we have a lot of stairs and I'm pretty clumsy.
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  • aww! YOU did not hurt your baby, it was just an accident! I hope she heals quickly! and good listening to your instincts!
  • Oh no! I'm so sorry! She's such a cutie and I'm glad she is feeling OK. How scary for you though. :(
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  • Our daughter just got her cast off and is still in a brace and I can tell you from experience that it's harder on you than them. 

    Do you know about Pediatric Orthopedists in East Brunswick? Not sure what part of central NJ you are in but we had a great experience with them.  

    Hang in there, in the big timeline of life this will be but a blip. And she'll never remember it.  Good luck!

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  • Poor mamma and Poor Julia! But, yes thankfully it wasn't worse. Tons of get better vibes to both of you.

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    Our daughter just got her cast off and is still in a brace and I can tell you from experience that it's harder on you than them. 

    Do you know about Pediatric Orthopedists in East Brunswick? Not sure what part of central NJ you are in but we had a great experience with them.  

    Hang in there, in the big timeline of life this will be but a blip. And she'll never remember it.  Good luck!

    It is a little far for us, but if we can't get in the the CHOP office in either Princeton or Voorhees in the next few days, I'll be calling there. Thank you for the rec!

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  • Im glad she is ok.  How scary!
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  • omg so scary. poor baby girl :( but she does look super happy at least so hopefully shes not in pain.
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  • omg, how scary! Thank goodness it wasn't more serious. Your baby girl is a trooper & is soooo adorable in that pic! I hope you both are feeling better soon.

    This is one of my worst fears, too, since DS's room is upstairs, we do a lot of up & down all day.

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  • I fell with Mikey once and it was awful- he was so shaken up, but he was fine- another time I fell going up the stairs with Kieran. That was scary, but not as scary as falling down with Mikey. Glad that you followed your instincts- HUGS! and hope you both feel better soon!
    Kristen(formerly kristen8/16/03, but the nest stinks and I had to change my name)Wife to Mike, Mommy to Kieran 7/25/06 and Michael 7/14/10
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  • Oh no, how scary! I'm so glad it wasn't any worse for either of you!
  • ugh so scary.. glad shes going to be ok.

    I fell with Caleb when he was an infant and lucky he was in the carrier. I missed the last 5 steps and the carrier landed on my leg. I had a HUGE bruise for weeks but he was ok.. Definitely took a few years off my life, I was so scared.  

  • Poor baby.  It's so difficult to see them injured.  I fell with Eliza when she was 18 months old and she ended up with a broken bone in her foot.  She had a hard cast for 6 weeks.  She was pretty good about it.  I felt terrible for falling down the stairs with her, but thankful that were were both otherwise okay.

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  • First of all, I'm really sorry this happened to you two.

    Second, how freaking cute is she?!?!

    Third, I love the computer SIG PIC. Adorable!

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  • Oh no!!  Poor baby! (and poor mommy!)  I hope she heals up quickly.  I did the same with Brandon WHILE PREGNANT with Carys...thank god I wasn't holding him, just holding his hand, so he didn't take a great fall...I did though.  Feel better!
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  • What a great smile!! I"m sure it was horribly scary, but I'm glad she seems to be no worse for the wear.

    I fell down the stairs coming out of a bus with Toby when he was about 9 months old. I got the worse of it (my back was all cut up and bruised instantly by the bus stairs), but he did hit his head against the door on our way down. Thankfully there was a nurse on the bus who checked him out, and he ended up being fine. But it's definitely scary!

  • Aww I'm sorry. Stuff like this happens to everyone though, so don't beat yourself up. The pic is too cute!
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  • OMG how scary! Glad she is ok. And love your sig by the way :-)
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