Starting Over
Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
I've been lurking long enough... I'm Pam and was officially divorced in December after 2.5 years of marriage. He is an alcoholic and I chose not to live that life anymore. I do want to say thank you to those nesties that have posted about addiction and books to read... I soaked up your advice like a sponge.
Re: Intro
Welcome! Congrats on moving onward and upwards!
3/12 5 mi -- 49:22 Pace: 9:52
5/1 Half Marathon -- 2:11:22 Pace: 10:01
5/22 10k -- 56:29 Pace: 9:00
5/24 3.6 -- 29:03 Pace: 8:18
7/10 15k -- 1:44:46 injured Pace: 11:14
10/29 5k -- 28:24 Pace: 9:04
Thank you! SN comes from the Kate Spade heels i've been drooling over forever- and ex always put a kabosh on purchasing them. But I just found them at a Nordstroms on clearance - so I bought them.
Achase I think you were the nestie that had recommended - Codependent no more by Melody Beattie to another nestie. That was seriously such a good read.
Yes... addiction is no fun to deal with.
But I went to a counselor, talked it out, understand it and myself better, and am ready to move forward with my life. Onwards and upwards!! 