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i'm really stressed.
ok, so usually my posts here are pretty upbeat, but i need to get this out and i don't really want to go into detail on my blog so i figured i'd come to you.
my sister's gf went to the er because she was coughing up blood. they did a scan, told her she had bronchitis and pleurisy, and sent her off with antibiotics and instructions to go see her doctor. she went in and was told that the scan showed a growth surrounding her thyriod and they wanted to do more tests. today she went in for an ultrasound on her throat (who knew they even did that?). it's large. and growing rapidly. they want to take it out as soon as possible, including the thyroid itself, and do a biopsy. they aren't ruling out cancer. she's been dealing with her father's cancer, taking him to chicago every couple of weeks for a treament that no one will do here because it's the only option left for him. as if that wasn't bad enough, she doesn't have health insurance.
i'm really worried but i'm trying not to let it show, especially to my sister (who reads my blog, hence why i'm not posting there) because she's not dealing with it very well at all. i'm just trying to stay positive until we know for sure what's going on, but right now i'm having a hard time doing that.
ok. thanks for letting me get that off my chest.
Re: i'm really stressed.
:-( I'm sorry. There really aren't any words. I think being there for your sister and staying positive is best - although not easy. No insurance? Can she look into buying some quickly? There are some that don't require health exams...just a thought...because even if this is nothing, taking care of it can still cost $$$. Maybe you can help by looking into any government programs your state might offer in the way of healthcare??
And remember this board is about real life, not just the pretty sparkly stuff, so don't think you have to always be upbeat. :-)
On no. I am so sorry. I can't imagine how scared you all must be. I hope she is okay. Please keep us posted. I am sending lots of good vibes her way.
**Two**-good advice, thanks for reminding us we can be "real" here, the good, bad and ugly.
((hugs))
that sounds like a very scary situation to be in. My thoughts will be with you and your family - definitely hoping the best.
please vent here any time you need.
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