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bachelor party vs bridal shower: etiquette
This is a question for a friend. I know only people who are invited to the wedding should be invited to the shower, does the same hold true for a bachelor party? My friend is having a destination wedding and a "friend" invited himself to the bachelor party. The bride and groom are both neutral about this person and if he attends the wedding. If he's coming to the bachelor party should they put an invite in the mail for the wedding?
FWIW, he asked the groom when/where the bachelor party is and if he can come.
Re: bachelor party vs bridal shower: etiquette
Hi! I'm certainly not an expert in etiquette... - but in this case I would invite him to both. I don't think the bride and groom have to, especially since he invited himself to the bachelor party but it would be a nice gesture. Maybe he's lonely.
If he really wants to go to the wedding - he will - otherwise I'm sure he'll appreciate receiving the invitation. Hopefully he won't be one of those "wedding crasher" type guests.
Same. H's friends invited a few extra guys to his bachelor party that were not invited the wedding. The guys just wanted an excuse to party.
Agreed.