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Advise me
(Why are girls so complicated?!)
So, I have a good friend, A. She has a friend, S, who I have met a few times. A and S were going to go to a concert and A invited me to go as well. Before I bought my ticket, A called me and said that she and S had a bit of a falling out (she didn't tell me any details), so she wasn't going anymore. I assumed this meant that the whole thing was off.
I just saw that S posted on FB about looking forward to the concert, which is next Friday. So clearly she is still going. I don't know if S thinks I'm still going or not, I have never talked to her outside of when I met her at A's house.
I'm not wildly into the band and I'm not interested in going just with S, who I don't really know.
Do I: Send S a message saying that I didn't get tickets? Not say anything and assume she knows I'm not going? Not say anything and hope she doesn't call me the day of the show asking when to meet me? Call A and make her tell S?
I am bad at this.
Re: Advise me
I wouldn't say anything to her and just assume she must have found someone else to go with.
I am sure she doesn't plan to go with you or she would have said something by now!
A is your friend, A invited you, and A told you she was no longer going. You don't have a ticket, so you don't have a problem.
Maybe S bought the tickets and is now going with someone else.
This.
Haha, she seems like a very nice person. And she has great boobs. This counts for a lot in my book.
Perfect!
Yeah, I'd definitely go with this one!
I wouldn't say anything. Sounds like A was arranging all lof this so if she truly didn't buy tickets then S will find out soon enough. Since you're indirectly involved and not the organizer, I don't think you need to do anything.
And I agree, too many girl relationships are a PITA.
Honestly, I wouldn't say anything. Not that that is what should be done. It's just what I would realistically do.
An American Girl's Travels
I would assume (which I know is bad) that since she knows A isn't going, and that A invited you that you probably won't be going either.
Basically I wouldn't do anything. She can always ask if you're still going.
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