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Does your husband watch porn (poll inside)

My husband and I are having a huge disagreement on this topic currently. I'd like some input from other woman on this...


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Re: Does your husband watch porn (poll inside)

  • I watch porn.
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  • I'm a little weirded out at the need to take a poll of strangers to solve a disagreement between the two of you.  Does how we feel really matter?

    Though, if it does...

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  • My H and I usually watch porn together  before we have sex, or we sometimes lieave it on in the background.
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  • I watch porn, too but my DH and I have only watched it together a few times.
  • I think if you as a couple enjoy it or even if one person in the relationship isn't bothered by it, is one thing. 
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    How about "he may watch it, I have no idea; I assume he probably does, and I don't give a flip because I'm busy watching porn"?
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  • He watches it, I watch it, sometimes we watch it together.  Porn is seriously not something to fight over, IMO.  Unless of course he's watching porn INSTEAD OF having sex with you.  That would piss me off.
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  • How do u know if he is watching instead of being w you? Basically I mean if he is in the habit of wacking it before you get home, then typically not wanting sex does that mean he is chosing it over you? Although, personally I can typically tell when my dh jasnt recently because he finishes way to fast. So..it can be a positive thing I guess
  • what is the big deal about porn???

    sounds like you are very insecure about yourself and/or your marriage if porn bothers you so much and causing arguments.

    believe me, there are bigger things to worry about.

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    How about "he may watch it, I have no idea; I assume he probably does, and I don't give a flip because I'm busy watching porn"?

     Ha! This.

  • My husband and I watch it together, and we both watch it alone. 

     

    We were both virgins before we got married, and watching porn helps us get ideas and help us figure out what we want to try/what turns us on. We only watch it once a month or so.

     

  • He does and there is one issue with it: He doesn't watch it with me.

    But, I watch it nonetheless without him. 

  • I watch porn.
  • My friend told me her 10 year-old son is grounded because she found out he's been watching porn on his laptop for the last MONTH!  I guess it starts young lol!  I hope you are able to work it out.
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  • we do watch it together, Im assuming he watches it when im not home, but I dont really know. 
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  • I know he used to watch it alone before we lived together, as did I. I still occasionally do by myself if I am home alone. I'm assuming he is the same. We also sometimes watch it together. I am not bothered by porn by itself, and I don't really understand why others are. I do get being upset if it is affecting your sex life though, and I also think that you should respect the other's feelings about porn.

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  • Wow, 30.6% of respondents need to take a look at their internet history...

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  • I watch porn by myself or with him or he watch's it on his own.Does'nt bug me in the least and our sex life is great.
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  • i watch way more porn than dh does....
  • I know he has watched porn but I don't know if he does watch it, as in regularly. I also don't really care. 

     

  • Lurker here but I really wanted to chime in.

    My H watches porn, do I mind, nope. H is half way acrossed the world its all he's got right now lol.

  • Of course he does! As for me, I personally prefer to read erotic stories, but yes, we both use porn.

    I never voiced an opinion against it, but my husband has asked me if it bothers me. I told him that as long as he's not preferring porn to an actual sex life with me, then I see no problem with it. Thoughts and fantasies aren't infidelity; they're just for fun.

    Honestly, I couldn't ask him to give it up, 'cause then I'd have to give it up, and that just isn't gonna happen!

  • I assume he does but don't like to think about it. I do, I don't know if he assumes or not. We have separate computers, and I private browse so nothing shows hah.
  • My husband watches porn sometimes, I watch porn sometimes & sometimes we even watch porn together. 

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    Wow, 30.6% of respondents need to take a look at their internet history...

    I agree! 

    DH and I have watched porn together in the past. Not much lately though.

    I am guessing DH watches porn quite a bit. I work out of town for at least 2 weeks a month and I am assuming he doesn't always wait for me to get home. ;) 

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    I watch porn.

    Ditto here

  • I watch porn, FI says he doesn't watch porn. If I found out he had been watching porn, the only reason I would be upset is because he knows I don't care-- I'd even watch too.
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  • My husband and I watch porn together all the time. Sometimes for sex, sometimes just for fun. It's good stuff!
  • No, my husband does not watch porn, or at least as far as I know, lol. I think I would prefer to keep it that way. I know has/used to, but I don't think he has since we've gotten together. Hes usually too busy on his PS3.

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  • I personally do not like it. My dad was a porn addict and I have witnessed what it can do to a family.

    My husband knows that I dont like porn and I believe he respects my wishes. 

    We have a lot of fun without it.  

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