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Does your husband watch porn (poll inside)
My husband and I are having a huge disagreement on this topic currently. I'd like some input from other woman on this...
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Re: Does your husband watch porn (poll inside)
I'm a little weirded out at the need to take a poll of strangers to solve a disagreement between the two of you. Does how we feel really matter?
Though, if it does...
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what is the big deal about porn???
sounds like you are very insecure about yourself and/or your marriage if porn bothers you so much and causing arguments.
believe me, there are bigger things to worry about.
Ha! This.
My husband and I watch it together, and we both watch it alone.
We were both virgins before we got married, and watching porn helps us get ideas and help us figure out what we want to try/what turns us on. We only watch it once a month or so.
He does and there is one issue with it: He doesn't watch it with me.
But, I watch it nonetheless without him.
I know he used to watch it alone before we lived together, as did I. I still occasionally do by myself if I am home alone. I'm assuming he is the same. We also sometimes watch it together. I am not bothered by porn by itself, and I don't really understand why others are. I do get being upset if it is affecting your sex life though, and I also think that you should respect the other's feelings about porn.
Wow, 30.6% of respondents need to take a look at their internet history...
Oh, that is fantastic. This...this is wine. Yeah. Look what all these idiots are drinking. Look at these dicks! Obviously it's not really delicious, like hot chocolate or Coke, but for wine...brilliant.
I know he has watched porn but I don't know if he does watch it, as in regularly. I also don't really care.
Lurker here but I really wanted to chime in.
My H watches porn, do I mind, nope. H is half way acrossed the world its all he's got right now lol.
Of course he does! As for me, I personally prefer to read erotic stories, but yes, we both use porn.
I never voiced an opinion against it, but my husband has asked me if it bothers me. I told him that as long as he's not preferring porn to an actual sex life with me, then I see no problem with it. Thoughts and fantasies aren't infidelity; they're just for fun.
Honestly, I couldn't ask him to give it up, 'cause then I'd have to give it up, and that just isn't gonna happen!
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I agree!
DH and I have watched porn together in the past. Not much lately though.
I am guessing DH watches porn quite a bit. I work out of town for at least 2 weeks a month and I am assuming he doesn't always wait for me to get home.
Ditto here
Can vacation be now please?
No, my husband does not watch porn, or at least as far as I know, lol. I think I would prefer to keep it that way. I know has/used to, but I don't think he has since we've gotten together. Hes usually too busy on his PS3.
I personally do not like it. My dad was a porn addict and I have witnessed what it can do to a family.
My husband knows that I dont like porn and I believe he respects my wishes.
We have a lot of fun without it.