res932:
Now that DS is 3 months old and STTN I am thinking maybe that I do want to have another. Logically I would like to wait until DS is 3 or 4 before having another, but when I see these people I know getting pregnant and having babies I feel a little jealous and longing for another. DH says that since the pregnancy was hard and with the depression/anxiety I dealt with during the pregnancy and after that he wants to wait a while before we talk about having another. I just feel frustrated because he wont say one way or another. It doesnt help that my ex messages me and tells me that he and his fiance, who he has been with for only 7 months, are three months pregnant. Now, I don't want to be with this ex because he doesn't have a real job and this new baby will be the third kid to the third woman. It just makes me jealous because I want another baby and these people seem to to be able to have them so easily and meanwhile DH isnt on board yet. Are these feelings normal? Does anyone have any advice?
res932:
There are a lot more reasons why I don't want to be with my ex, but those are just the highlights. I think I am really wanting another kid and DH is on the fence. Plus, after hitting the rough patch with DH I feel like I don't want my ex to be happier than I am. Immature, yes.
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Thoughts? She could use some advice I think.
Re: TIP on TB 3-6 months board
Pssst, go back to TIP, look 4 posts down from yours.
Thank you for providing additional details though... this is all interesting and kind of sad.
whooopsie!
~Benjamin Franklin
DS dx with celiac disease 5/28/10
The additional detail was nice.