MOD flexiblebride

figgs0831

 Please don't take offience to what I'm about to say... since apologizing first seems to be OK here.

I am truly curious.... which part of my repeated, public bashing about my "dead babies" did not qualify as a violation of the terms of use??  I can easily ramble of a dozen of them without even looking.  Here... let me point out 2 of them...  I won't even get into my intro post.

1) The wonderfil rape filled signature used to prove a sick point about my "real" siggy..Oh and it was conveniently changed when you made a post last night.  I'm sure we can come up with a cache of it

2) The dead baby post that was used to provoke my reaction.  I should also mention that it needed to be removed by a BUMP mod, not even you...

3) the fact that a certain person came to a Bump board and started bashing there....

What exactly does the bump classify "harmful" language?  That fact that I was chastised becasue I chose to recgonize the children that I birthed and then buried.. doesn't count?  The fact that I was called out on a dead baby post wasn't "obscene"????  Come on...

But what I find funny is that CJC made a post expressing her feelings... She was not vulgor, obscene, nor was she being disrespectful and yet HER post was removed by a mod. 

luvmyducks

MOD fail. 

flexiblebride

figgs0831:

 Please don't take offience to what I'm about to say... since apologizing first seems to be OK here

I'm completely not offended.  Everyone has their opinion, and I appreciate honest opinions.

I am truly curious.... which part of my repeated, public bashing about my "dead babies" did not qualify as a violation of the terms of use??  I can easily ramble of a dozen of them without even looking.  Here... let me point out 2 of them...  I won't even get into my intro post.

1) The wonderfil rape filled signature used to prove a sick point about my "real" siggy..Oh and it was conveniently changed when you made a post last night.  I'm sure we can come up with a cache of it

2) The dead baby post that was used to provoke my reaction.  I should also mention that it needed to be removed by a BUMP mod, not even you...

3) the fact that a certain person came to a Bump board and started bashing there....

What exactly does the bump classify "harmful" language?  That fact that I was chastised becasue I chose to recgonize the children that I birthed and then buried.. doesn't count?  The fact that I was called out on a dead baby post wasn't "obscene"????  Come on...

I understand how you feel about how you were treated here by a heartless Nestie.  At this point, Vol Mods cannot ban or delete.  They can edit posts.  When we are switched over to the new format, whomever is moderating here will be able to do what is necessary (they also have to follow up with a notification as to what they had done to the Nest Gods).

But what I find funny is that CJC made a post expressing her feelings... She was not vulgor, obscene, nor was she being disrespectful and yet HER post was removed by a mod. 

I was not the Mod who removed her post.  As it is right now, ANY mod can edit a post.  Once we go over to the new format there will be one Mod per board, and they will be able to make changes to their board only.  I have no clue who removed that post.

FYI:  I was at work when AlA was so cruel to you, so I wasn't here during most of it.  Not an excuse--just the reason why.

malibu5880

Figgs, if it makes you feel any better, I think pretty much every single board on TK/TN/TB has seen your thread and backs you up completely. I haven't seen one single post anywhere else that agrees with the things that were said here, and the talk of TN is what a giant failure of a person alabaster is.

briide2be2008

malibu5880:

Figgs, if it makes you feel any better, I think pretty much every single board on TK/TN/TB has seen your thread and backs you up completely. I haven't seen one single post anywhere else that agrees with the things that were said here, and the talk of TN is what a giant failure of a person alabaster is.

This. Figgs, I don't know you, but I cannot believe you were subjected to this. Stay classy. Everyone is on your side. Alabaster and a few others are absolutely disgusting for insulting you like that. Their behavior is unacceptable and I cannot believe they have not been banned.

ams8099

briide2be2008:

malibu5880:

Figgs, if it makes you feel any better, I think pretty much every single board on TK/TN/TB has seen your thread and backs you up completely. I haven't seen one single post anywhere else that agrees with the things that were said here, and the talk of TN is what a giant failure of a person alabaster is.

This. Figgs, I don't know you, but I cannot believe you were subjected to this. Stay classy. Everyone is on your side. Alabaster and a few others are absolutely disgusting for insulting you like that. Their behavior is unacceptable and I cannot believe they have not been banned.

This whole debacle has made it's way to "off" boards and I can tell you that the vast majority of us are absolutely disgusted with Alabaster.

You are a true lady and handled yourself with dignity and grace.

MrsBPO

And to quote someone in the OP, you're more than welcome to post on Money Matters.  Or anywhere else, for that matter.

Ariana2O11

flexiblebride:

FYI:  I was at work when AlA was so cruel to you, so I wasn't here during most of it.  Not an excuse--just the reason why.

 

You are right. This is no excuse. Maybe someone who can access the boards more frequently should moderate because the things that A got away with while you were at work were outrageous. It should have never gotten that far.

I'm still shocked as to why her IP is not permanently banned yet. 

divinemsbee

Lord knows this isn't my board, but that's the thing I find most odd about this whole debacle. I'm on TK, and if she hadn't been banned after the first thread, she would have been out on her ass after that second little stunt. Period. On any TK board I can think of. I know that you guys have a different format here, but it seem weird that the mods here seem pretty much powerless. Also, I dislike that the mods here can alter something offensive that someone says when there' no quote of it, because it seems like that happened. And yes, I get that banned people can come back with a new name, but trolls get gone pretty fast on TK.

flexiblebride

Ariana2O11:

flexiblebride:

FYI:  I was at work when AlA was so cruel to you, so I wasn't here during most of it.  Not an excuse--just the reason why.

 

You are right. This is no excuse. Maybe someone who can access the boards more frequently should moderate because the things that A got away with while you were at work were outrageous. It should have never gotten that far.

I'm still shocked as to why her IP is not permanently banned yet. 

A Vol Mod is required to be on the board(s) three hours a week.  I'm here way more than that.  And unfortunately for you, my paying job comes first; Vol Modding'is a close 2nd.

And the NG's do not permanently ban IP's.  Not sure where you got that information.