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We really need a FB "unstable" relationship status

My friend who's husband read our FB emails has changed his status 5 times in the last 48 hours. Went from married to separated to single to leaving it blank to single to married.

This man is 40-something years old. 

He carries a gun for a living. 

How scary is that?

Re: We really need a FB "unstable" relationship status

  • Facebook should only let you change your relationship status once per day, tops. Anything more than that is just crying for attention.
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  • very scary!

    has your friend changed her status at all? have you guys talked?

  • No, she's embarrassed at the whole thing because he's putting it out there. She and I have talked, but I'm frustrated with her at this point. I don't care how much I love him, I'd leave him for treating me like he's treating her. He's stepped way over the line into emotional and verbal abuse. Seems like he's fine and "perfect" when they're together (they currently live 2 hours apart until she can find a job in his city), but he's a monster when she's not with him because he "can't trust her".
  • i would be embarrassed too!

    maybe she feels like she deserves his mistreatment since she cheated? 

    hopefully she reaches out to you soon. 

  • I would not stay with someone so willing to air our dirty laundry.  I would give him the definative answer to his uncertainty.
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  • imagecalle28:

    i would be embarrassed too!

    maybe she feels like she deserves his mistreatment since she cheated? 

    hopefully she reaches out to you soon. 

    She actually said this the other night. 

    But the kicker is, she never actually cheated! Apparently what happened was that they broke up for a week during their engagement, and she contacted a guy that she'd been intimate with before. They did some things, but she didn't have sex with him. And then when they got back together, she never told him. 

  • They kind of have an unstable relationship status. It's called "it's complicated." I always laugh when someone uses that as their status. Even if it's true, why would anyone put that out there?
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  • imageChasing Emmii:
    imagecalle28:

    i would be embarrassed too!

    maybe she feels like she deserves his mistreatment since she cheated? 

    hopefully she reaches out to you soon. 

    She actually said this the other night. 

    But the kicker is, she never actually cheated! Apparently what happened was that they broke up for a week during their engagement, and she contacted a guy that she'd been intimate with before. They did some things, but she didn't have sex with him. And then when they got back together, she never told him. 

    your friend needs to repeat the following five words to her crazy h, "WE WERE ON A BREAK!"

  • Can I like this thread?
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    Can I like this thread?

    Yes 

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