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New here and needing advice
Re: New here and needing advice
Nest gold. I laughed so hard I think my fetuses were caught off guard!
Yeah but I thought you were different. Guess not. Maybe I shouldn't even post here. You guys are all very mean.
But you still can't spell. HTH
How can I talk it over with him if I can't even talk to him?! We are so distant because of the military!
The beauty of it is that we all manage to spell everything correctly without spell check...hence the "you can't spell" comments.
Wel if my ocasional mispeld word meses with yu I bet if i strtd taklin like dis you guys would all have fit!
He isn't going to deploy. He has an injury that makes him non deployable. Once he gets out of basic training he might not even stay in the military. So I'm not worried about that. I'm just wondering about our wedding? And what I should do about his letter not mentioning that he loves me?
I'm 20. I don't know why that matters?
No, the letter was not about missing me. That's why I'm asking for advice.
I don't know how to change what is happening to our relationship.
This was my thought exactly.
OP if you know in your heart that you love him and trust him now is no different. He is going through something that is difficult and trying and he may not want to talk about it right now or doesn't have much to say about it. Maybe writing you makes him sad that he's not there now. I have no idea all I know is just keep the eye candy as eye candy and keep sending letters to your BF. Don't worry about anything else right now.
He's at Ft. Jackson right now, I know there are girls there. He would have plenty of time to cheat, he's there all the time! I know I need to keep the eye candy to a minimum but I am afraid for our relationship. I would rather have a backup plan than put all of my faith in my boyfriend. Because he never said he loves me. So what am I supposed to do?
How the fuckingfuck does your H have an injury that would keep him from deploying, yet he is at boot camp? Troll fail.
Me too. Holla!
He has been recycled 3 times and will be again. Why am I a troll? You aren't being fair to me. Can I not post here?
No.
Like I said, he's gay.
67/200
So if you decide to date the guy from Applebees instead will your new SN be "mypearlshisapron?" Your new sig can be "putting the ho in nachos."
LOL times 640,000,000
Okay... I'll play.
I love how you have your wedding planned out, but he hasn't said he loves you yet. That is an important aspect if you ask me. How long have you been dating?
You might want to rethink that reception venue.
He got injured during basic. Why are you being mean? I haven't done anything to upset you!
It IS allowed now, you know.