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So, a few words of wisdom would be loverly!
Hey girls...
I posted a couple weeks ago about getting hit on in a bar. We've talked on the phone a few times, and text a decent amount (but not omg he's a clinger amount). Neither of us are looking for anything serious, me cause I'm not ready and him cause he's moving halfway across the country in two months. I'm cool with this.
DD announced this week that she wanted to see Grandma and is going tomorrow, so I texted him and told him as such. We decided to meet up for drinks, see what happens, knowing it will likely get physical. I'm okay with the physical part...thinkin FWB potential 
Soooo here's where I need help...with my...is it a date? LOL. I guess in a way, it is.
I've never gone on a date outside of a LTR.
How do I dress? Should I be prepared to pay at least for my own beverages? Do I show up early and wait for him, or be fashionably late or what? Oh my...I'm nervous!!! Texting convo is easy to me, but that one on one thing? Not so much. However, he was quite chatty the night he hit on me.
Re: So, a few words of wisdom would be loverly!
Jeans, a cute top and heels are my go to for drinks. Get there on time. Offer to pay.
Its a date but you're not meeting the Queen. Relax and have fun.
I totally smiled at the not meeting the Queen. Thanks. I was thinkin along those lines too, so it's good to know I'm on the right track!!!
Thanks!!
ITA with MCC....but wanted to also add, don't stress about it....just go with no expectations...if he's cool and things move forward, cool....if they don't you got a night out and had a few drinks, still cool!