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Sexy Time Poll
How often do you do it?
I've noticed the H and I are doing it less frequently due to various circumstances, I'm curious if we're in the norm![Poll]
I've noticed the H and I are doing it less frequently due to various circumstances, I'm curious if we're in the norm![Poll]
What I want to get Missus for her birthday siggy challenge.
Re: Sexy Time Poll
You need to add an SS.
I'm on birth control that dulls my hormones so I'm rarely in the mood and when I am, H is either not home or asleep or doesn't feel good (and it goes vice versa lol). We have sex very little now a days, which sucks but eh..I'm fine with it. I'm going to ask for new BC so it SHOULD help.
No SS needed - I was looking for frequency.
The scarcity is becoming a bit of a problem for me.
I brought it up to him, and, naturally, he got offended. I was like, hey, facts are facts, you knew from the get go I needed it regularly and often!
I get this, but circumstances affect this. I don't know yours, obviously, but if frequency decreased suddenly, I would want to find out what was going on to cause this.
I also feel like a guy would be ripped a new one if he made this statement.
Maybe with different people. Part of our attraction to one another was the fact that we both enjoyed it so frequently. (at the time) I didn't know many girls who liked it as much or as often as I did.
He has said it to me in the past, and I was just never in the mood becuase ofmy depression. He pointed it out, I got my meds changed. Problem solved.
H has no apparent reason for the lack of desire. I asked him about it before I mentioned it being a real problem and he said nothing. nothing has changed. nothing is bothering him etc etc
but it's been a couple weeks now of just every now and then (I've mentioned it before)
Oh I totally get it. It's rough, and something that couples definitely need to work on in the relationship. If it has only been a couple of weeks, maybe he was just being "lazy" and didn't even realize it, and now that you brought it up, he was embarrased, and will be more cognizant of it in the future.
Could his testosterone count have dropped? My aunt had this problem with her boyfriend, who went from being a horn dog to just not being in the mood in a matter of weeks. He'd just turned thirty and it turned out his testosterone levels were that of an 8 year old
Meds can help.
DH and I went through a funk not long after we got married, mainly due to stress and mild depression, but we got him some hobbies and that really helped.
I thought of that too, but he seems a bit young for that, and it's not something that runs in his family.
I think it's directly correlated to the job situation. Timings have coincided, but overall it's been less frequent.
Typing that out makes me feel like a horny hor.
If you are, then I am. When I was in that situation, I was irrationally angry at him... and that did NOT help matters, lol!