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Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Been married a year.
My husband and I have been married a year and apparently if you don't get pregnant on your wedding night, you are weird. I want to do things in order! Fall in love, get married, THEN have a baby. And since my husband is in the military, I DO NOT want a baby right now!!! He is about to deploy and I am not going to raise a baby by myself. All my friends are having babies and I am 'supposed' to be next. No one seems to plan for babies anymore. I know that sometimes it happens, but I am only 20 years old. My husband and I did not date for long before we got married, I would like to get to used to him before I have a baby on top of it! SO tired of people saying "I am next".
Re: Been married a year.
You are very wise not to ruin your life yet at the age of 20. Once you hop on the babytrain, there's no coming off of it after a certain point so it's best to be certain that is what you want. I am glad you don't give into the pressure of your friends since it's really none of their business anyway.
Welcome to the board, and congrats on being married a year! I'd offer some wine but I don't know who's looking and I don't want to get in trouble giving to a minor, so I will offer you some peeps instead.
Pull up a bar stool and have some... milk!
Welcome!
That is a perfectly sound train of through. Good for you! And welcome!!
Just say no to babies!