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Random question about porn.
I don't watch porn, ever. Not my thing. I've always known my husband did, but since I don't entirely agree with it we have an agreement that as long as he keeps it private (away from me), and doesn't affect our sex life I don't care. Well, the other day I found a video he was watching (we share a laptop) and the girl looked exactly like me (same hair, basic facial structure, body type) doing the kinda things we normally do. Anyways....
Question is - Do you or YH usually watch porn similar to what you normally like or complete opposite? Is that normal?
Re: Random question about porn.
My dh looks at a wide variety of images, mostly pics not videos. The ones I have come across mostly didn't look like me, however there have been a few pics of girls he had saved that did look similar to me...same age range, small chested, tall,slim, longish brunette hair. Since he saved these, which he doesn't normally do, that made me feel a little weird. But honestly probably whatever he had saved would have made me feel weird. Probaly more if it was really different, like a short blond with huge tits and a big ass.
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My bf and I both like porn, but we're into completely different things. He mostly likes pics - usually it's pics of younger women with larger breasts than me. Lol. I know he sometimes masturbates to it, and sometimes he just looks to look - not sure why. The stuff he looks at is of conventionally attractive women of a wide age range. Some of them might look like me, but most of them are of younger, better endowed women.
I, on the other hand, don't get much out of looking at pictures. I like videos, especially if there's a story - e.g., getting it on with the repairman, getting it on outside, being taken by "force," etc. More for the story than the images, like someone else said. Some of the stuff that I watch, I actually have done with my bf... But there are some things that turn me on in the videos that I would not want to do in real life. I'm a little perverted when it comes to my porn, I think.
If my bf were looking at pics of women who looked similar to me, I'd just be flattered. I don't think I'd have any concern at all. And honestly, what really turns me on when I watch the videos is thinking of my bf doing those things to me, even though the guy in the videos doesn't usually look like my bf (he's short and nerdy).